Yesterday evening when I got home, W told me she was going to look at an apartment in the morning. I said, "I'm sorry to hear that." I said, "I just want you to know I'm gonna miss you if you go."
Later in the evening, she asked me, "What will you do if I stay and try to work things out with you?" I said, "I would make sure we spend quality time together and do fun things together."
Later, I was reading my 7 yo daughter's school journal (she writes funny stuff and mispells words in a funny way) and W was reading it with me and laughing with me.
Not sure what she's going to do, but if she leaves, I guess that saves me from filling out the TSO.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
No you still want to get a sep agreement in place to LIMIT her access... she needs rules and BOUNDARIES ken... that needs in place by LAW to hit home with her...
I don't know if telling her you will miss her is a good idea, its just more pursuit dude...
She needs to know she doen'st have CONTROL over you anymore man... and every time you pursue you show her she has you wrapped around her finger... she can smell the fear in you a mile away...
Good job overall though, you do have her thinking twice...
My wife wants me to take our two daughters to the OM's son's birthday party. And he may be there - I can't believe this. Not too sure what to do. I can refuse, but then she will go. What a dilema.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
Now it looks like she will be taking them to the birthday party. I told her yesterday that it's not necessary for our kids to go to that birthday party, but oh well, what else can I do?
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
You tell her NO Ken... or you go and when you get there you tell her that you are BOTH leaving RIGHT NOW with these children or you are goin gto tell EVERYONE In the ROOM she's having an affair with that man right in public
Tell her if she wants to be humiliated in public you are more than happy to do it... Don't WARN HER... tell her no you don't want any of your family there..
If she insists you go along to and suddenly make a scene exposing her affair to everyone in the room.. do it and she will be ashamed of herself and it will resonate for weeks... do it Ken
Didn't get your message in time. But WOW! What an interesting idea. I'm sure W would leave me if I did that. I think she'd have a very hard time forgiving me too.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
