Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I'm in the industry and this worries me. Did you make your children the beneficiaries?

PEI, I made my sister 80% and the kids 10% each.
I was in the business too. I did want to have some for the kids they couldn't touch for awhile. Thanks for your concern, I'm sure many people make that mistake.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Another thought,

What does "Hooking Up" mean?

[newmama]

gr8, I really think your wife gets the point you are moving on.
Even if you haven't, you have done a good job acting like you have! :-)

She is fully expecting you to move forward. (my guess)

Just wanted to reiterate that point.

So I am pleased you are considering meeting with her in person.

You can see if she really is fine proceeding or just isn't fighting you because it looks like your mind is made up but she has some doubts about divorcing.

[newmama]

hooking up--if you mean "she totally wants to hook up with him" it sounds like "gettin' it on!" (S-E-X)

if it's like "let's hook up later and hang out" then it means get together.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

A friend told me W "Hooked Up" with someone while she was on vacation.

I can't see W doing a one night stand but I don't know what W is capable of doing these days.

I think this had a lot to do with me joining the dating site. Oh hey BTW, I removed my profile from the site last week.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Its graduatio.n day and I am the first one to arrive. its their choice where to sit. Tomorrow nite the appraiser is coming so I'll have more information about her thoughts.

I forgot to mention, while i was on vacation W texted me with pics of the kids at the beach.
Not reading into it, just stating it.

Any thoughts?

[mza8]

Gr8, maybe ask your friend what they mean when they say your W "hooke-up" on vacation. I would want to know what I was dealing with if I were you. Maybe nothing but good to check it out.

Well, you'll see whether or not your W decides to sit next to you or not. Are they still going to dinner after the graduation? Has she asked you again if you want to go? Nothing wrong with going to dinner tonight if things go well at the graduation.

I agree, don't read anything into the pics. It was a nice gesture. See where things go tonight. Enjoy your D5's graduation. Be a happy dad for her.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

thanks mza8.

Graduation was enjoyable. Her mom and step dad came in after me and sat behind me. We talked a bit. W and S2 came in after them and she sat with them, as expected. S2 comes running to me and sits on my lap until the ceremony begin.

Didn't get a hello or goodbye from W. In fact her brother and his W were the only ones to say goodbye.
Brother's W talked to me for a bit and invited me over to hang out in the future. She said she's misses me and wanted to meet.

I said OK, anytime let me know.


They went out to dinner and W didn't ask me again.

Over all I feel good. I guess this is the way it's going to be at functions for the kids.

[newmama]

Well you got that out of the way! You will be seeing your W tomorrow, right?

Did you wave hello at W?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

YOu what, since S2 was happy to see me and ran over to me I really didn't say hello to W either. This does happen quite often on both sides.

I won't see W until tomorrow when she drops the kids off. The appraiser is coming by and I would think I would have a report next week.

I will mention to W on Saturday that I had an appraiser come by.