On the contrary, everybody has zero expectations and is not expecting anything at all.
The girls do not want him to come home at all.
After the program, he will be driven back to her place.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, if he wants to come, I would make him provide his own way, but that's just me. As far as the kids not wanting him back, I sure can't blame them, most people will only take so much neglect and abuse before they wash their hands of them.
Can't believe it is finally over. Today, we are going to open houses all day and it should be a lot of fun.
H backed out. He texted D18 and said he had stomach problems due to nerves and could not make it. Prior to that, he texted and told me that there would be too much drama because my parents would also be there. Funny because my parents never said one bad thing about him. I sent him a voice mail and told him to tell his daughter he was not going because I was not going to do it.
I hope he regrets his decision for a long, long time.
She also was presented with awards lastnight and there was a video presentation at the beginning of all graduates.
I had a good time and today I plan on having a lot more fun.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, You are holding onto what is already gone. Move forward with your life, he has made his choices, let him deal with it. Get a divorce, there is nothing left that you can do.
MWG, Congratulations to the Graduate!! So sorry your H backed out!! I know your daughter is disappointed and I am sure that there will come a day when your H will regret his decision. In fact, there are going to be LOTS of things he regrets!
I'm glad YOU have had fun today! Continue to move forward and enjoy EVERY day you are blessed with!!
He has been asking S19 for money and S19 will ask me to get it from H's unemployment. I left a message for H and said as long as he is living with other woman, I will not give him a dime, that we need whatever funds we receive to make ends meet around here.
We are approaching the one year mark of him not seeing his daughters. They think he will end up killing himself as he is tormenting himself and putting himself in a depression.
D18 is looking for another job after her babysitting job ends in a few weeks. D16 will be in Boston thru the end of July and she will work while she is there.
I am still searching for work myself-nothing new there. The house--have to submit loan modification papers once again. Dreading it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
