Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
OMG, FIB, the only thing I can say is look to the goal. Keep looking straight ahead...ugg!
I remember my mother and father battling for years in the courts in NY. My dad unemployed and not cleaning the house either....made out with several thousand dollars. My mom bascially paid him off, she was so deseperate for it to all end. He in turn took us on a huge shopping spress with his new money... didn't learn till years later that it was just pay off money when I read the D degree.
NY state is a total mess with matters like these....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
extremely painful to watch although I admit, on occasion, I laugh out loud at cheater's explanations when they are caught ON CAMERA and still lie. But the point is, someone we're seeing is in great pain, the worst they've probably ever felt, and we are...watching. Does this help anyone or anything? I guess if you hear an obvious lie and yet know you've heard it BEFORE in your own life, it could help you wake up. Beyond that, I feel like I"m watching a surgery on someone without anesthesia, knowing the outcome is fatal... j
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
