I chose the one less traveled by...#29

[JCJ]

You sound kool as a Kat

Sorry to be cheesy, I couldn't help myself lol!

I can't wait for the Sex in the City movie.

[kat727]

LOL. That is fine Julia, we all could use a little more cheesy! I am thinking maybe going out to dinner after too. What a nice way to keep myself busy. I don't want to forget that I got married, I just don't want to wallow in remembering the hurt of the last few years.

kat

[karen43]

Happy Mother's Day to you Kat! Hope you had a good day & are still enjoying yourself! Love, Karen

[NoCodeBlues]

Hope you had a great Mothers Day.

[kat727]

Thanks I did. Having the option of spending the whole day with my Mom or not made a huge difference!

The girls made me a card and bought me a daisy. The boys got me a card and roses. My parents uploaded photos of the kids to Kodak and had a book made! My Aunt gave me a lovely saying framed. I am a lucky Mom indeed.

J even sent me a text just in case the kids weren't spoiling me enough. I spoke with Karen and then called J to thank him. Only downside was my least favorite team of the remaining 3 on Amazing Race won.

Not a bad day.

kat

[mishka422]

Awww...I liked the brothers but I REALLY wanted the cowboys to win.

[kat727]

They were always nice to have everyone. They didn't play dirty. The cowboys were brothers too!

I think I have only had the team I wanted to win do so twice. So I guess I should never bet on the winner! lol

kat

[kat727]

Ok, Maybe I am reading way too much into this but saw on FB that K's college friend will be going to Florida with the family too. Maybe I am too fragile to trust right now. Maybe I am jumping to conclusions,, I don't know. (oh yeah, the friend is gorgeous).

I sent him a message saying that maybe I made this in to too much and I would stay out of his way. I am confused and a bit sad.

kat

[mishka422]

I sent him a message saying that maybe I made this in to too much and I would stay out of his way. I am confused and a bit sad.

WHY DID YOU DO THAT??? That sounds pretty defeatist kat and that is totally not you!

I understand being disappointed though. I'm sorry it's not going the way you had hoped.

[Gypsy]

Hey kat..

It's great that this guy has given you such a positive boost.

Now stop pursuing. Don't send self defeating passive/aggressive messages. Stop trolling on FB to see what's going on in his life. If he wants to be around you, he will. And if he doesn't, he'll avoid you.

The interesting thing is that many guys are drawn to a woman they have to pursue.

Go on with your life, appreciate the fun and great feelings you experienced and let him find you.

The ball is in his court and you have the world before you!

*hugs*

PS.. focus on you.. and ask yourself why you NEED/WANT him so much. Take care of you, heal and have the confidence to seek and not expect less than a healthy relationship.