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Oh, Im sure she has issues....:) but I wont go there! wink


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Is she with someone elses' husband?


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
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no, not this time around. She has actually got a good guy who is is close to 40, never been married and no kids....but he is a friend of my H's family and also my brother in laws brother....so if she marries him, she will be my neices new aunt....ugh


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man kissak... that is "too close to home" for me. you are one awesome woman!

glad things are good.
keep focused on YOU and what matters.

so happy for you..


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Thank u Cagz....


Yesterday when my H came in from work he was acting odd...not as happy or something...I asked him was he ok and he said yes, but it wasnt believable, so I let it go....I had to take my Daughter to her art show at school...so me and her left just a few minutes after my H got home.....well, there was the OW and her man walking hand in hand again down my road! Ugh....this time I knew they would see me since they were walking facing me...so, being the person I am...I waved...at her man smile He waved first though...I didnt even look at her....but out of the corner of my eye, I saw her throw her hand up to wave.....

Now I know what was wrong with my H and why he wouldnt say anything to me about it. Im sure it hurts him to see that, cuz it hurt me to see my H with her...

I really dont think she is trying to showcase herself...I truly believe that her and her man are just exercising because they both have put on some weight...hehee

I should have known that was why my H came home in his mood and shut the door behind him...he never shuts the front door...I wondered why he had.

Oh me....why cant she just move?


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Kissak, was it your H who broke things off with OW?

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Actually it was her that broke it off...she didnt like that we were still friends and that we talked alot to each other....she broke it off because she didnt trust him.

UGH!! Just went to the alt world....she of all people, the OW wants to be my friend on fb!!! WHY? Does she think that because I waved at her, well her bf, that I want to be her friend now?
Too weird....she has lost her mind.

Got to get her out of my head...even had a dream(nightmare) about her last night....I dreamed I went to whisper something in my friends ear about seeing the OW and her man yesterday and after I whispered it and looked at my friend it was actually the OW that I was talking to!!!!!!! She just looked at me and smiled!! UGH! gross


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Kissak, how frustrating for you...

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Just went to the alt world....she of all people, the OW wants to be my friend on fb!!! WHY?


WTHeck...what's wrong with this woman? She is totally screwed up. You should just feel sorry for her, she is a pathetic creature.

The nightmares...I had those for a few years after my H's first affair 20 years ago. That was horrible...I would be dreaming that she was back with H, that he left me again.....I hated those....eventually they became less frequent and then they disappeared all together.

Hang in there, it will get better smile


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i hope you did not accept her friend request!!
and hey you have a fb?? hmmmm..

Ok so your x.. be wise. and she is a bimbo.


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Thanks Mila...it is frustrating!

And Cagz....NO WAY! I did not accept her friend request....She is not my friend nor do I want her to think that I want to be hers. I know people make mistakes that affect other peoples lives...we are only human and I do forgive her but no one says I have to be her friend! Im sure me hitting ignore will give her the point.....and yes I am in the alt word....look me up! If you can find me....I am friends with Mishka...and a few others. Ill try to find you!


Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
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Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10
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