It sounds like an intense week. I hope you take the time to just breathe whenever you can. take care...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
As Gypsy told me..."A positive, confident attitude goes a long way."
FIB says to "steel yourself."
We didn't choose to be injured through divorce, but it happened. I think we gotta focus on ourselves and being the best people we can be in body, mind, and spirit...and being the best dads we can be.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Mediation tomorrow folks. If you have a moment, send some good kharma/prayers/thoughts my way.
As much as this still hurts, tomorrow is all business.
Went to my support group (only one more meeting). Tonight's topic was reconciliation. Interesting. And, the leader of the group asked each of us if our spouse said they would be willing to work on the M, would we? Before I could even think about it, I said yes. At this point, I don't know if I still love my W, but I feel a sense of duty/honor to try. But, that takes 2 people. And right now, only 1 is willing. Not much choice there.
Anyway. Thanks in advance for all your positive thoughts.
I'll be thinking of you tomorrow GIMA. May you wear an invisible mantle of support, and may it lend you whatever strength and dignity that you need. (((GIMA)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
