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[rysmom]

Hi D Money,
Im glad that your w invited you to the concert . You must be doing alot of good work on your marriage.

[fisherman]

You must be doing alot of good work on your marriage.

I think Mr. Money has worked on himself more than anything.

Rysmom, you'll soon begin to see that is all you can do. Focus on improving you.

It takes two to work on a marriage.

You come first, you fix you. If your spouse decides to turn in your direction down the road then, that's wonderful. Unfortunately we don't have control over that.

[fisherman]

D,

I hope things continue to improve for you and your family.

You are in my prayers.

[ericmsant2]

D -

Kusdos on the positive interactions. I pray that everything keeps moving in the right direction.

God Bless,
Eric

[trustingfaith]

Slow and steady . . . you are an inspiration.:)

[flowmom]

D, so nice to hear about the progress. What do you think you are doing that makes this possible? It's important to recognize how your actions have paved the way so that you know to do more of them

[D Money]

Slow and steady . . . you are an inspiration.:)

That's what I really had to improve on...slow and steady. I feel like I can now be friends with her without putting pressure on her.

[trustingfaith]

And that is where I need to be, too. I feel like my H and I are friends again so I need to make sure I am keeping any pressure off still. It's good for me to see examples of others doing this.:)

[D Money]

Hard, isn't it? There were times I was pressuring her without even realizing it. You have to measure everything.

[trustingfaith]

Very, very true. It is so easy for me especially since my H is still in the house to also start acting "wifely" and slip back into that role. I have to CONSTANTLY be reminding myself to back off so I don't.