All of this talk about FWB...I thought about it. I really did and I just don't think that is me. I mean even when I did "it" for the first time, J and I had dated for almost 2 years. We were broken up but he was still my friend and I knew he wouldn't hurt me(emotionally).
Of course with it now well past two years, I know I want to but gee if I still don't want it to mean something. I am not saying there is anything wrong with FWB, I just know myself well enough that I would want more there. I am a hopeful romantic.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
FWB isn't anything I would have ever done. I can guarantee that I would never be this way with anyone else. There is a comfort level that I wouldn't have with any other man.
I'm a hopeless romantic too and I really need to have those loving, romantic feelings. But.......there is something to be said for 'gettin' your freak on!'
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T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Oh hon, I was just thinking out loud since it has come up on a couple of threads.
I want to have fun but I also want to be with just one person and know that they are with you and not out playing the field. I may be making this too hard on myself!!
I have convinced S17 to make creme puffs anyhow. So HE is.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
S17 survived but he was asking me a question probably every two minutes. It made me want to change my name!
I took him up earlier to where he will be taking the ACT tomorrow bright and early so he knows where to go. Then off to the store. When we get back he shows me this note that the water dept. has left saying I have used massive amounts of water in the past 10 days. Maybe I need to check for a leak.
I can't find anything in the house so far. My heart is sinking. Can't imagine what it is going to cost me if they have to dig up my yard to fix it. This morning I noticed they were doing just that a couple houses down from mine on the other side of the street.
So this is how I know I am alive...one thing after another.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Just talked to the city. My current bill is about $230!!! YIKES! they are going to try and get me more info. Have a call into the plumber also so they can figure out where the leak is. So much for refunds...easy come, easy go.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I was telling Jeff last night, re fwb, that if you are a friend I would want to sleep with, I doubt I could leave it at just benefits, bc obv I am already 'into' you on other levels!
However, if one of the dudes from that TV series Spartacus showed up at the door? Game on....
(For the record Jeff did not agree with that last part...)
Oh I think I am getting it all figured out. the plumber is going to charge a LOT of money. My parents stopped by just as I got done talking to them so I filled them in. They said if I don't get approved for the financing then they would finance me for zero interest. They love me. They just have so much on their plate that I just don't like to go there.
I could see the Spartucus thing happening! Yep I see that I am already into K, as if you guys didn't know that already. I just couldn't be just that with him. It already drives me crazy when I don't get a text, I am a flirtation widow during the last two weeks of taxes!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
