Thanks for the post. I have a few old threads out there. WAY too much to read.
I do feel like a few weeks ago, I turned a corner. Doing pretty well since then. REALLY have NO attraction to W, nor am I interested in becoming attracted to this version of her.
Starting to feel the pull of a new life. New possibilities and a chance to have a "do-over." It's not ALL bad.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Not sure I follow you OP. Are you referring to the mediation or my post back to Greek? If the latter, I could write for quite a while about how a WAS doesn't typically come back begging. I get that. I would need to know (believe?) That if my W said she wanted to work on the M, it was for the right reasosns.
That if my W said she wanted to work on the M, it was for the right reasosns.
Just as they come out of the depression she would need to be led back to the marriage. I don't think she is going to gallup back on her horse professing her deepest undieing love for you.
That if my W said she wanted to work on the M, it was for the right reasosns.
Just as they come out of the depression she would need to be led back to the marriage. I don't think she is going to gallup back on her horse professing her deepest undieing love for you.
Nor do I. I really don't see this happening at all. But, I agree with you.
