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Thanks for the suggestions. I just let it be.

Tomorrow will be a fun day at work. My partner and I are going out in the field with appraisers to learn how they do what they do. So I get to take a field trip. To cool. I got handed my first project. I love this job.

I have my kids tonight, so I took them to dinner. Then I exercised after. Thursday I bring home our new dog. D8 is already suggesting names for the dog.

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That's great Kevin! So you're doing reporting and IT stuff in Real Estate? Managing the SQL database?

W didn't want to take her turtle to her grandparents, so she gave him to me. His name is Sheldon and I'm really enjoying him. Gives W and I something to talk about also. I think pets are really good in our sitches.


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Ya, I am reporting and analyzing in the real estate market and using sql, but not managing a database. We use sql in our reports we download from BO.

I took our dog back. That dog had issues I was not aware of when I got her. The shelter was cool with it.

Coparenting mad

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Ya, I am reporting and analyzing in the real estate market and using sql, but not managing a database. We use sql in our reports we download from BO.

I took our dog back. That dog had issues I was not aware of when I got her. The shelter was cool with it.

Coparenting mad

Kevin


Uh oh! What happened Kevin?

Sorry about the dog. Sometimes that happens especially when you get an older dog. You never know what kind of issues they had with their previous owners.


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I just hate that we are only coparenting. It seems impossible to take it to the next level right now. We are really friendly towards each other and we can chat on the phone. But I can't seem to get us yet to do something together without the girls there. The average seems to be 2 to 3 years and I haven't even reached the 2 year mark yet.

I just need more patience with the situation. It is going to take more time.

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In the mean time, I swam laps for over an hour today and I felt totally great after. I was very relaxed after. I took my girls to an indoor natatorium and we were there for 2 hours.

It got me to thinking about maybe getting a membership and swimming about 4 or 5 times a week. The drive is a bit far, 30 minutes without traffic. But the health benefit and not having to worry about weather, etc are good positives.

So I am thinking it over. Plus my girls can wear themselves out and sleep good at night and get into a bit better shape themselves.

I decided after this recent experience to hold off on a dog until I am out of the apartment in July.

I had dinner with my girls and W again tonight. Friendly conversation the whole way through. I told her some things I was looking to do with the girls, etc. It all went well.

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Monday Monday, so good to me.

Just another manic Monday. Wish it were Tuesday. Actually, I wish it were Friday.

Dum de do dum de dah

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So what are your plans for Easter?


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Not quite sure yet. W has the kids.

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El Kevbo....

I like the nickname! smile

Does your church do anything special for its Easter service? I am going to my sister's this year for Easter, so I will be at her church instead of mine.

Make sure you do something for yourself that day if you are going to be kid-free. If the weather is nice, maybe something outdoors?

And hey a new tradition, sushi on Easter... wink


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