Hi, havent been on here in so long to post that I couldnt find my old thread!
Just wanted to update everyone that after 5 months of thinking and watching....I have decided to let my H move back home. Things are going really well. No eggshells anymore...which is a good feeling! Ocasionally he tells me he loves me...BIG mile stone!! Im happy, he is happy. He is still in therapy working through some things, but all is good.
Please still pray for us. He is still having issues with depression. But each time he has an issue, its easier to work through.
But things are going good. I dont see any resemblence to past times he came home. Back then I could feel the distance and it would only last 2 weeks. This time we have taken our time with things. ANd I took my time on deciding if this was what I wanted.
Just now having the struggle with telling others that he is back home....some look at me as if I am crazy! But it is utimately my decision!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
You have to follow your heart and do what you feel is right. I wish you the best of luck and hope your Ml'er sees what a gem you truly are. Keep us posted.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I haven't followed you thread but is that time right, December 06, was the first bomb? Wow! That's three years of craziness if I'm doing my math correctly.
Glad you are getting things the way you want. Keep up the good work.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
It's so good to see some positive progress from someone. I'm happy that your situation is improving. It gives me hope as I'm just at the beginning of this madness. I need to see some happy endings - it keeps me fighting. Thanks for posting. All the best
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
C-Bart, yes that says Dec 06. There has been lots and lots of ups and downs for me. But it was all worth it to me. For some reason I always knew deep down it wasnt over for us. I dont know why, but I always had that feeling. Im glad I have stuck it out. Now comes the next journey.
Mila, I will have to read your thread, I dont get on here much anymore, but I lived on this site for a long time looking for answers and support. All I can do is tell you to stay strong and live your life to the fullest! Things will always work out for the best. There are alot of good people on here with great advise!
Things are going good. Its still strange to me. Things that hit me weird is like him saying he will be "home" in a few. He calls my home his once again. I havent seen a down side from him in a while now. Its nice. We are planning a vacation this summer and things that need to be done around the house. Kids still get nervous when he isnt there for some reason...they ask alot about where he is and why he isnt home yet...I know they are still scared he will leave again, but I just try to reassure them. Maybe he should be doing that though. I do have to take a step about stopping the child support soon. He has mentioned it a time or two, but he always says "when" or "if" you stop Child support...its almost like he thinks I AM going to change my mind.
Just wanted to update. Things are going good so far.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Be careful. Your first post said that this happened 10 years prior.
It is always gratifying to know that...for some....love endures.
Bless you.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
