Look into her eyes. Take her hand. Lead her onto the floor. Let the rythm connect you. Take a step closer to her. Dance. spin. Her eyes ignite you. Lose yourself in the moment. Pull her in and hold her. Then spin and release her. Nothing else in the world matters. The night moves to every beat with you. She smiles. You melt. The song ends.
Walk off the floor with a smile on your face.
You did it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I'm looking at getting a maltipoo full grown dog for my girls today. They really want a small lap dog and it would be nice to have the company when it is just me here at the apartment.
We shall see what I end up doing.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I did end up adopting a maltipoo today. She is 3 years old and a very sweet dog. They are going to spay her on Wednesday so I won't be able to bring her home til Thursday. She also has heartworms, so they are going to begin treatments on that.
My W brought the girls to meet our new dog at the adoption center. I wanted to see how the dog would interact with my girls and she did very well. My girls are excited about her and pleased. So tonight I went out and bought a bunch of doggie stuff in preparation for her homecoming.
My W let me know twice that the dog is perfect for my current lifestyle and also where ever I move to next. Nice. Thanks W.
Tomorrow it is back to work again. I get my girls Tuesday night. My weekend was ok. Nothing spectacular. Just hung out with friends.
I just got done excercising. I am trying to be more consistant with that.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
W texts me telling me she could tell I was excited about the dog. I said ya, she will be a fun addition. She texted back that she will be nice for me to have around when the girls aren't with me.
Goodness gracious, give it a rest. I get the point W. I'm not even going to bother responding to that.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
W texts me telling me she could tell I was excited about the dog. I said ya, she will be a fun addition. She texted back that she will be nice for me to have around when the girls aren't with me.
Goodness gracious, give it a rest. I get the point W. I'm not even going to bother responding to that.
Kevin
OR....... (playing Devil's Advocate)
You could notice that she actually spent time with you at the animal shelter, and she reached out and contacted you about the dog and validated your decision to get a dog...
Not to be mean but she basically said to you exactly what you said to us, that the dog is a good fit for your lifestyle and will be fun to have around when the girls aren't there.
I know she didn't say, "Wow such a cute doggie, when we get back together I will love playing with her!"
but she also didn't say
"Good, now you have a dog to occupy your time so you don't bother me, since I have moved on in life and want nothing to do with you and you will be single forever", which is how it appears you took it...
I am thinking a few months back you prob would have just been glad that the two of you were able to have a pleasant conversation or text exchange...
Keep going on the exercise, it is a great stress reliever!
My W let me know twice that the dog is perfect for my current lifestyle and also where ever I move to next. Nice. Thanks W.
Seems to me that she is trying to get a reaction out of you. She is noticing the changes and wants to see if they are real. Prepare yourself for more tests.
Nice job! It appears the seed of doubt might has been planted. Sit back and see if it grows. Previously, she wanted have given you a second thought.
Keep up the mystery. You should make more female friends. Wonder if w might start getting jealous. hmmmm????
My W let me know twice that the dog is perfect for my current lifestyle and also where ever I move to next. Nice. Thanks W.
Seems to me that she is trying to get a reaction out of you. She is noticing the changes and wants to see if they are real. Prepare yourself for more tests.
Nice job! It appears the seed of doubt might has been planted. Sit back and see if it grows. Previously, she wanted have given you a second thought.
Keep up the mystery. You should make more female friends. Wonder if w might start getting jealous. hmmmm????
PMA
On this line of thinking, it would have been funny when W made her comments if you had replied, "Yeah, she's perfect for my single lifestyle. Plus, dogs are huge chick magnets"
