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Originally Posted By: K4D
I wonder where 25 is these days?

Kevin


Wow...you are asking for it! wink

Could it be you aren't in need of any scoldings right now? Keep it up!


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How is the job Kevin?


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Originally Posted By: Drew
Why remind her? Why not just do it?


Good call.

Kev, I'm also wondering, how's the job going?


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I think 25's MIL passed away a couple of weeks ago.

She may be dealing with that.


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The job is absolutely great. My boss is a great guy and my partner is a great guy. I love what we will be working on and the people I will be working with. I couldn't ask for a better situation. I am completely thrilled and grateful for the position I have. Thank you God. I sincerely mean that.

If that is the case with 25, certainly her and her family have my condolenses. I hope everything works out as best as can be there for everyone.

Life is continually getting better for me. Good friends, good job, communication is improving between me and W, and I am part of my kids lives. Studying is lightning up now as I was busting my butt cramming to learn sql server based off some sql discussion in the interview, and turns out, won't need it at all. Just need to know sql, which I am already knowledgable on.

So I am not studying tonight. I'm going out for sushi tonight. I completely forgot it was St. Pattys day. I have been a bit out of touch with things because I was so focused on preparing for this job. lol.

TTYL,

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Ended up falling asleep tonight. Was exhausted from studying every waking hour.

W sent me a text of a leprechan mooning me. The subject said kiss my lucky charm. Then below it said "Let the St. Patricks Day moon wars begin... I got you first, better get started and NO sendbacks..."

I didn't respond. Wasn't sure how to.

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Originally Posted By: K4D
Ended up falling asleep tonight. Was exhausted from studying every waking hour.

W sent me a text of a leprechan mooning me. The subject said kiss my lucky charm. Then below it said "Let the St. Patricks Day moon wars begin... I got you first, better get started and NO sendbacks..."

I didn't respond. Wasn't sure how to.

Kevin


Yeah...that is kind of weird...

Glad you are so excited about your job though! smile

I went to the YMCA to celebrate St. Patty's...woo hoo!


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Awesome. I have never been to the YMCA for St. Patty's day.

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You sound good Kevin. Keep it up!

Great to hear about the job. You don't know how nice it is to read POSITIVE post from you after a year of reading negatives.

You are trully blessed.

Keep up the positive interactions w WAW.

Keep on doing the WORK and hopefully it will rub off on her.

At some point she is going to have to take responsibility for all the "damage" she has done.

In time.

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Thanks PMA,

POSITIVENESS is keeping up. Tonight my W came by to pick up our girls and wanted to take me to dinner to celebrate my new job if I didn't have plans already. I said I am thinking of going dancing later, but I don't have dinner plans at the moment. So we went to dinner with our girls. I took her to a great sushi buffet and we had a good meal together as a family. It was nice. We got along well.

After she dropped me back off and I got in my car and took off for the evening. I went to a dance studio where a friend of mine was dj'ing tonight. Now I am back at home.

It was a positive evening all in all.

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