To D-F...no home yet. On paper, STBXW should be leaving until the house sells. So, I should be able to work out a departure time when sold. OTOH, who knows what the judge will order if this goes to to trial.
To Kalni...I only meant that I seem to be reading your sitch wrong and didn't want to let MY sitch interefere on how I perceive things.
Gypsy, BND, 4kids, figgeroni, CTH, deb, et al....touched by your support. My 4 year saga, filme noire is finally coming to an end.
To kml: no more whack jobs; no more whack jobs; no more whack jobs........
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Hey FIB...following along....good luck. Don't want to discourage you but we all share kids with the Xs so...we are pretty much almost assured of a sequel. Hopefully with alot less drama than the original. Keep your chin up Frank!
To this day, the cold blank stare on (x)W's emotionless face the day everything was finalized still haunts me. Even just the other morning as I'm lying next to her and she was still fast asleep, that look crossed through my mind and gagged me a bit.
For me, that moment in time was like a casket being lowered into the ground and it finally hits you, a death has in fact occured.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
STBXW's brother showed up in his clergy attire. Her mom is here. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
GREAT! Now I'm going to have "the power of Christ compells you!" ringing through my head all day long. Ironically, "The Exorcist" os one of (x)W's all time favorite films. I had the music set as her ring tone for a bit there
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
Almost 1130...still sitting in hallway. Hurry up and wait. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
I look forward to the joy of you having a home for you and your beautiful children, to be able to be a calm haven, a place of love. Where kids can be kids and eggshells are either in the frig or the trash.
Where dull is exciting. Where you sleep in the same room every night. When you spend more money on wine than replacing printer cartridges, paper, staples, paper clips, filing cabinets, rented storage space for paperwork and hand trucks.
To create YOUR life. And relax. Before the kids are tween agers.
