W called today to let me know there was a tv show coming on that D8 loves to watch. From there we ended up having a good chat that lasted about 45 minutes. We talked about things D8 likes to watch, a resturant we discovered online while talking that we want to try, making sushi at home and finding seafood grade tuna and salmon to do it with, W's day yesterday in st. pattys day weekend festivities, my job starting tomorrow, what I have been learning, her church quoir, whether to join a buy in bulk store, etc.
Finally her lady friend called and she needed to get off. She had made mention that she wasn't sure how we got off the subject of her original reason for calling, but we had a really good time chatting and laughing together and just plain talking.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Kevin, thats sounds really positive. Hope it keeps up.
Thanks lea74,
I am just letting things fall where they may. I don't pursue her. She seems to be ever so slightly getting more comfortable with me again now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
That is good Kevin. Your M may or may not be restored..but if not its great that you can be friends. My first exh and I talk all the time like that. Its wonderful for the kids when mom and dad can get along.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
A couple friends of mine are riders. Would be fun to join up with them.
Of course this does not go over well with D12. She told me that if I want mommy to come back, do not buy a motorcycle.
Ummm... gee thanks kid. lol.
As one of your motorcycle friends, I say go for it! Talk about a 180, your W won't know what to do with you.
I got my Harley 6 months after separation, but W was very in favor of it. The texts went something like this:
"would you ride with me if a I got a Harley?" "ride with you on it? I'd have sex with you on it"
I bought one that night. LOL.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I got my Harley 6 months after separation, but W was very in favor of it. The texts went something like this:
"would you ride with me if a I got a Harley?" "ride with you on it? I'd have sex with you on it"
I bought one that night. LOL.
did she?
I knew you'd like that one SM.
Nope, got to remind her to make good on her promise;)
She did get an extremely HOT shirt from the Harley shop that she wears when we go riding. Surprised me which one she went for. Scandalous.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Glad you are finding ways to enjoy your time with your wife, Jon.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
