Over the last few weeks, my L has had some incredible affirmations:
she legally found that STBXW would lose thousands if not tens of thousands of dollars in equity on the house since I paid for upgrades
she won a money judgement for contempt vs jail
she wrote an affirmation to quash STBXW's subpoena deuces tecum and seek sanctions against her L
Last, but not least, I played tough at the end. I think her calling the police last time shot herself in the foot.
But...hey...I don't know for sure and it's not over yet.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
It sure would save a boat load of cash if a settlement could be reached before court.
I wonder if STBXW's L is concerned about sanctions that might affect status with the NY bar. It seems that there should be some oversight to prevent divorce lawyers from abusing the system too much for their own gain.
Frank, once you have a place you dont have to share with someone who is batchit crazy, you will have some moments of great peace.
yeah it's NOT over til it's over (not to rain on the parade b/c God Knows I'm squirming the way I was last Saturday when d12's team beat the undefeated team..I could not believe it even though we were ahead by 12 pts, until the last 30 seconds when I finally breathed a sigh of relief--same feelings here...waiting for the buzzer to sound...)
OKAY so did you say that your L won sanctions against her L? Oh dear God say YES to that!! If that 's true, then this is a juicy delicious piece of news....and I am starting to smell something...what's that I smell??? Oh, is it...victory?
NOT JINXING IT....holding my breath and waiting for YOU to tell us it's done!! j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Sorry but ..... I'm still holding my breath a little, waiting for the whole parade to go by,
BUT then I"m lighting up something carcinogenic, no doubt, and perhaps damaging to my liver too, OR IS IT GOOD FOR MY HEART?? --(you docs need to make up your minds)--and then, sitting back and saying..."ah...FIB's time has come..."
soon...soon it will come. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
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I'm still holding my breath a little, waiting for the whole parade to go by, 