PS..gypsy, et al. Thanks for all the birthday wishes. And look at all those 'O6's here. LOLOL. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
FIB - "Keep drumming Ellie and, if you pardon me, I hope the sex was/IS great!!!!!!!LOL."
OMG, you have NO idea
I must say, the ex was great in that regard, and I was pretty upset at the thought of being a 53 year old woman trying to train some new guy to be half as good. After all, 26 years of practice, a guy gets pretty good at things. And I'd had plenty of other lovers in my twenties (it was the 70's, after all), so I had a basis for comparison.
BUT - the new guy has mad ninja skills like I have NEVER seen.
12 more days...OMG I feel like planning for the "Twelve Days til Christmas" theme... but FIB's Jewish...
Still, you get the point.
I can't wait Frank, I really cannot wait for this to be over for you and your kids (and for what I think will happen to your stbxw). But again, your "victory" in life is to be solely measured by your success and your happiness going forward, not her misery or inevitable crash and burn. In fact, except for how it affects the kids, who cares what she does/says/thinks/feels? She isn't your problem anymore...I know you're a reflective man and you want to know you're lessening the chance of a repeat experience so you look inward a lot. That's a smart thing to do. But for now, relax about that. (Besides, we'd all tell you if you were a jerk )
I just think you should keep the constructive "ruminating" for later, and know that for now...You're soon to be totally in charge of your life without the parasitic impact of the Swirling Vortex of Negativity ("SVON") on you. And that's a good good thing.
Ahhh....12 days... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
BUT - the new guy has mad ninja skills like I have NEVER seen.
Gawd....I hope I meet a mad ninja woman with skills I HAVE NEVER SEEN.
YOWZA kml.
Atty filed a motion to attempt and quash STBXW's subpoena for 10 years of documents. I swear..I wish I could post L's affirmation. She is a bright woman. All her law, quotes, etc. She knows her stuff.
Trial is approaching. Under great pressure now. I just have to make it a few more weeks. I am deeply indebted to all of those here who have stayed around and continued to support me. Four years post bomb this April.......
Originally Posted By: DonH
...this is a long road.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
