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Let's see, what are the chances?

My first wife was diagnosed as having a "personality disorder".

Counselor says X has a "borderline personality".

Might I have repeated a pattern?

Somebody just shoot me.

Please.

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We do tend to repeat patterns. I guess knowing what they are is a good start.

I am working through a book to do exactly that. It makes me realize that R w/X maybe wasn't as good as I had hoped.


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What is the name of the book, if you don't mind my asking?


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Uhh...I am wondering if I am allowed to say on these boards or if it'd be seen as advertising.

Do a little Googling on getting past divorce.....


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Closed on the house Tuesday.

Im now their landlord.

Weird.


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de de de de....de de de de....de de de de....

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Good for you Sleeper.

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Checking on sleeper


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How are things, Sleeper?


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I'm better

I was thinking today would I wouldn't take her back if she wanted to reconcile.

On the other hand I've also thought what was I thinking by holding out any hope of reconcilliation the first couple of years?


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13
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