Hi Mattie, How are you? Have a good weekend? How is your daughter? We are all fine here, just not used to the cold weather all the time. We southerners typically have mild winters!
Friday night I went out of town and spent the night with a cousin of my mine I had not seen in a few years. We were very close as teenagers, but you know how things get when you get married and have families.
She lost her husband to cancer nearly a year ago. We discussed the difference between death and divorce. We both came up with the conclusion that death is harder, but she had the reassurance that he still very much loved her when he left this world.
My cousin and I went out and I ran into more family of mine that I had not seen in years. We had a great time.
Mr. A was quite concerned about me going down there I believe...lol. He told me that if I was not too hung over Saturday he would like to get together with me. I assured him that would not be the case, and it wasn't!
Saturday night Mr. A took me to dinner and we went back to his house and watched "Goodfellas", quite the romantic movie. Ha! I actually fell asleep on the couch and he covered me up.....awwwww. He teased me about staying up too late the night before. He is absolutely correct, I'm too old for that!
I like Mr. A a lot, but he I'm not sure where I stand with him. We have been seeing each other for 6 months now. I noticed he still has a profile listed on a dating site. I have a dinner date with another man Wed. night. I still can't get over the feeling that I am semi-cheating on Mr. A. But, it appears he may be dating others, so as long as that is the case I will continue to look for "Mr. Right". It is called dating!!!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
If you are not sure and want to know...ask him!! I know I am a big chicken on that stuff so I shouldn't be one to talk. If it doesn't bother you than don't worry about it and go along until you do want a change.
Miss chatting but glad you had a good weekend. Kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hey Yoyo, I haven't been on this site it a long time, but wanted to stop in and say hello. I just read through this thread. You sound like you are doing great. Your head is in a good place. I love how you always keep to the high road and you are just taking things slow and moving on with your life. I'm so impressed....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
Looking forward to a nice quiet evening. Cooking steaks at Mr. A's house and watching The Hangover. He needs a stress reliever. This movie requires little concentration...just lots of laughs.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
How did the other night go? You do seem to spend more time with Mr A than all of the others. Maybe the alphabet gang will eventually dwindle down to a letter or two and you will know what you want.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
