Hey Maria, don't worry too much about politics or anything else you can't control....and before anybody gets on me for saying you can not contrpol the politicians, I mean other than voting once every four years or so.
Your energiesa are much better spent on your loved ones. I hope your dad gtes some positive news tommorow.
<<I need to talk about the affair and what I feel about it. Cant be holding things in for too long.>> I agree that you need to talk about it if you need to, however, I am still not convinced that talking about it with your husband present is a good idea. Please remember that I am not a counselor nor have I written any books.
Hi guys, my dad has to do a biopsy to find out what kind of cancer it is and then he will do chemo.
H cancelled the MC today because he was requested to go to a preparatory meeting for the trip tommorow. I think I will go by myself and see if I can explain to her how I feel about all this without worrying he will get upset.
I feel I am ready to do something REALLY crazy. Something that will be only for me. That will make me happy. I need to figure out what could that be... K
It is good that you are still going to go. Talking to the C without H around is probably better so you can make sure when H does hear how you are feeling that it is in a constructive way that is not going to push him away. He has definitely made some progress so you don't want to stop that by making him feel worthless again.
Have a good day and hopefully you can think of something fun to do for you!
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Hey K.. so sorry your Dad needs a biopsy and more treatment. At least they said he COULD do more chemo though as you hoped? So there is hope perhaps.
Why not .. resign your job! Stay home and paint etc and launch your own jewellery business (I can be the UK arm!), with H's wages you wont need to work, right? That way you can spend time in the day with him before he goes to his evening job...ha maybe you should put that to him.. if you wont resign one of your jobs so we can have more time together as a family, then I will resign mine!
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Use your C time to talk about ALL that you feel inside. About the past, the present, the future and your dreams. Get it ALL out to her....without H around....it will do you alot of good...guaranteed.
I feel I am ready to do something REALLY crazy. Something that will be only for me. That will make me happy. I need to figure out what could that be...
The possibilities of CRAZY fun happy stuff to do are unlimited!
Well Kerry, don't leave me hanging man. What is CRAZY fun happy stuff to do? I must have no imagination because I can't seem to think of one thing. Share man! I need ideas!
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Share man! I need ideas!