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Hey there, GIMA! Snow on the ground?? Ours is almost totally melted now.

Will y'all have to sell the house b/c of the D? And have y'all discussed who gets what in terms of furniture and household items? I would love to see you driving the bus on those issues. I wonder what the nuts and bolts of all that Reality would bring about.

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Greek,

We got about 4 inches of snow last night. Ice now, that's melting.

We have discussed nothing re splitting property. Her L is pushing for mediatio. We are pushing for settlement to be discussed now. She filed, she tells us big items she wants - major issues. I agree I will lead on splitting the smaller, yet very sentimental issues - Christmas ornaments, etc.).

I am still very dark and plan to stay that course. You disagree?

Little frustrating now b/c I am not "doing" anything. Not that I can cause her to change.


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Oh, Greek, the house MUST be sold. We agree @ that.


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GIMA,

Have you seen the movie "Its Complicated"?

Saw it last night. Script is written by anyone of us here on DB.

I Laughed the whole time. If you haven't seen it add it to your GAL activities.


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Oh, Greek, the house MUST be sold. We agree @ that.
Does that mean the D isn't final until the house is sold?


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Will add the movie to my list. On the house thing, answer is not necessarily. Once we have an agreement, the judge just needs to sign off on the decree. House sale would not have to hold that up.


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So you would be D living in the same house?
Just wondering?


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Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Oh, Greek, the house MUST be sold. We agree @ that.


Why don't YOU put it on the market? Now.


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Coach and I saw "It's Complicated". Agree! Hilarious! What I liked about it is the juxtaposition of Martin's character and Baldwin's character. Beautiful illustration of a man who 'listens' and one who...doesn't.

GIMA ~ dark is appropriate. She is divorcing you. Dark is in order. But I'm also thinking that there might be some business you can start working on now to keep your LIFE moving forward. House is on of them.

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Unfortunately, a very real possibility.


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