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Cutter, I am actually excited for you, not depressed or sad!
A new career? What fields are you looking into?

About your date..will you see her again?


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Originally Posted By: cutterbug
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I talked to Gnosis on the phone. <snip>
Many people with their own opinions and s%*t <snip>
People who I have not met face to face, but I proudly call them my friends.

The feeling is mutual buddy.

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You sound good, Cutter.

You DONE good.

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Originally Posted By: newmama
Cutter, I am actually excited for you, not depressed or sad!
A new career? What fields are you looking into?

About your date..will you see her again?


I know you are newmama!

My university was Psychology, never finished.Got tired of having no money or food. Ended up getting a diploma in electronics. Which was enjoyable for awhile. But the last few years I have struggled with it. No passion.
But this whole issue that happened to me completely fascinates me. As does what is happening to others. So that would social work.
So what I am thinking of doing is researching out the university's near by. Looking at their Social Work paths and determining if the courses are offered at nights and on weekends. Then Starting in the summer / Fall. I will begin to take these courses one then two at a time. And if it is my passion then I will switch over to this in a few years. Worst case. I take some university courses and better myself.



The date.

It was a very good date. Very invigorating conversation. I will ask her out on a date some time over the next week or so. Perhaps a day trip to a museum followed by a bite to eat. Or a trip up to a brew pub in a city near by. That we both mentioned that we like very much. But that is a few weeks out.

I have immediate goals of getting ready for my first half marathon. My first race. smile
Getting my stuff in order to be packed away for when I sell the house. Trip to visit my friend who's marriage I saved in sarasota some time in may. Then plan for another trip to ireland later on in the year.

And somewhere in all this I have to find a new place to live.

I think I have a busy year coming up.


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Sounds good Cutter- travel, dating, new directions, clean slate, and lots of learned lessons.


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Sounds like a busy and EXCITING year of possibilities to me!!!


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Holy Crap cutter,
I haven't commented yet - but I've lurked on you for months.

Good for you! You did the right thing and I hope you are as proud of yourself as we all are of you!!! You are a rock.

Thank you for being honest with your feelings toward ladybug. I think sometimes people want to pretend that they don't have those feelings - you were true to yourself. Its inspiring.

I was listening to Metallica's "Devil's Dance" from Re-Load while reading the posts leading up to your Dinner. It made for quite the soundtrack... thought you might appreciate the image wink

Yeah
I feel you too
Feel
Those things you do
In your eyes I see a fire that burns to free the you
That's wanting through
Deep inside you know, seeds I plant will grow

One day you will see
And dare to come down to me
Yeah, c'mon, c'mon, now take the chance
That's right
Let's dance


Snake
I am the snake
Tempting
That bite you take
Let me make your mind
Leave yourself behind
...Be not afraid
I got what you need, hunger I will feed


One day you will see
And dare to come down to me
Yeah c'mon, c'mon, now take the chance
hahaa
Come dancccaa!


Yeah, come dancin'


One day you will see
And dare to come down to me
Yeah c'mon, c'mon, now take the chance


Yeah
I feel you too
Feel
Those things you do
In your eyes I see a fire that burns to free the you
That's wanting through
Deep inside you know, seeds I plant will grow


One day you will see
And dare to come down to me
Yeah c'mon, c'mon now take the chance
That's right
Let's dance


It's nice to see you here
Ha ha


Sounds to me like you are well on your way to bigger and better things!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Cutter--you the Man.

New career, new house...I need to do the same for myself.


Need to think about engaging in this battle for the house. What defines wining in this case? And do I want to win, or do the right thing?

Holy crow, I am in a bad place right now. I offer my admiration for how you are handling things. And hope to find my own inner compass soon.

You rock.


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Aver - Cutter is the man, isn't he? smile He's a good bug. Sorry you're in a bad place right now. Maybe our joint "appointment" will cheer you up! LoL

Hey, Cutter! WAVE!


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I FILED
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well it will take a few years to switch over. I am not giving up my job so it will be nightschool for many years... But that is cool smile


Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!
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