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Kat, I would have gladly picked up and moved somewhere else away from the drama to start over if I hadn't had all of these responsibilities and obligations. I hear ya sister!

Julia, I'm so excited for you and all the possibilities in building a new life and new experiences. Go and conquer (ok....I can't spell today and that is so NOT right!)the world Julia!!!!!!


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It'll be both really exploring and healing. Getting away from all the reminders will really help as well as not being tempted to get involved in the drama again as I will be physically unable. Also, a different scene will do me good. But also this is an opportunity and they don't come along that often that I want to grasp. Bangkok is such a great jumping off point for SE Asia and I think it will be an amazing experience. I am lucky in that my responsibillities are minimal and I can do it. I really appreciate that!


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That's a depressing reality check to come home to. GO Maple!

I love that Thailand is still an option. That does sound like a fantastic opportunity.

Glad you have a great trip! Too bad we missed each other in So Cal!


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Thanks Michelle!

Photos of my trip up on FB...


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Love the pics Julia!!


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Thanks Mishka!

Sigh, so last night I got a text from h just 'dropping me a line to say hello' and asking me if I was back and hoping that I was having a lovely time.

Man, what a mind f"ck! Is there two different people in one body? This is why it has always been so confusing, nice h vs. yob h.


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I hate that...one minute they are asking you how you are, and the next...being total jerk offs.

Split personalities?????


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Bipolar?

Ya know, my XH accused me of both. When I told my sister that (she's a nurse), she laughed hysterically and said maybe he was projecting.


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Loved your pictures! What a beautiful part of the world. I may just have to hop over there some time. I am really proud of you for doing your adventure. You are a girl after my own heart. smile

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Welcome home from your trip Julia!

I'm going to have to take a peek at your photos in the alt.

My H is bipolar too!

It would be so much easier if they were jerks ALL the time.

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