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Thanks all. I am fighting.

I have responded to her BS firmly, well written, and that she is a clear and present emotional danger to my kids.

I am still being courted jobwise. I see light..BIG LIGHT....at the end of the tunnel. I hope...it stays there.

House is going to be listed within the next 1-2 weeks. S9 tells me that STBXW is looking to rent an apt/house in the neighborhood.

L is still fighting for me. Notes that STBXW cannot claim any appreciation to the house from improvements unless she can prove she paid for it. L is a bright woman.

It's rough. It's been too long. It is sucking the life out of me and needs to get done. March 15th unless a contempt hearing is scheduled sooner.

I will fight for my kids. I have nothing to lose. FIB


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Yep,wise decision. And when you have nothing to lose, then you fight free of fear...

Take those kiddos in the summer and come visit. Maybe you can teach my H a couple of things about Strength and Honour...
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Can I bring my kids too? Maybe Frank and I could get a package deal for divorced guys with kids. The cool thing is that the 3 of us all have kids of the same age/gender.

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Count me in. If the kids stay home, I want to find that beach on Mykonos...?Platy Yialos???....the super beach.....


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Platis Yialos (=wide beach) is very touristic now. But if you come early enough, we will find a little spot to lay our bodies on!! (Mykonos with kids is fine. People there go crazy which keeps their daily schedules completely different than the "family" schedule).

Kerry, you always have an open invitation. Just let me know ahead of time so I can plan days off...
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Kalni...I don't think the kids would be fine on THAT beach. LOLOL. The other gorgeous beach is Chrissi Akti on Paros. FIB


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FIB,
I spent summer on 2007 with the kids on THAT beach. It was fine. Maybe you mean Super Paradise beach?
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And Chrissi Akti on Paros is where we went 2006-2006-2007 (one week) and a weekend 2009. Hotel Amarylis, not great but on the beach...
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YES...that's right. First nude beach I was ever on. I remember some gorgeous British girl putting a blanket down nearby and then she started a conversation with me. Suddenly there was this imaginary line/plane underneath her neck that I tried so desperately hard to not let my eyes point beneath. LOLOLOL.

On Paros, in Naoussa, there is a tall hill with a monastiraki. I climbed to the top and there were beautiful views of the island.

Ahhh....Greece....I loved it. FIB


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A 'For Sale' sign went up today in front of our house. I feel so sorry for our kids.Pain comes, still....

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Frank -

I feel your pain across a continent on the selling of your home. Tough one. It is inevitable that your kids and yourself (to hell with you STBXW) had to go through a change. I can only hope that the sale will go through quickly like pulling a bandage off a wound. Look on the bright side - you wont be around and have to put up with the toxic person that your former spouse is now.

December 12, 2007 - the day you filed - just a couple weeks before I prepared my own filing. It has now been over 2 years for you on this legal travesty. What is the court timeline?

I hope that soon enough you will be at a point where you can find love and companionship with a good woman and have your eyes gaze below that imaginary line.

Saru mo ki kara ochiru

Kerry

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