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The problem won't be finding a mechanic to work on it. The problem might be the high price for parts if they are not readily available.


That is a good point CG. I will have to give that one some thought.

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Originally Posted By: K4D
I am back to exercising again as well and eating healthy again.


That's great! Exercise is probably the most important thing you can do right now. Glad to hear you're going to mass after work, and the business plans proceeding. I'd say those are 3 very important goals, keep it up.

Interesting to hear about her and church. I'd be shocked if my W told me that. You never know what's going on in her mind, but God is definitely working even if we can't see it.

To everyone wondering what Kevin is like in real life, he's fine. We had a great DB meetup for sushi just a week ago. I'd never know that from reading this thread, but that's the way it should be. We come here to vent and voice frustration so it doesn't come out on the outside.


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And sandi2, what an incredible story! Exactly why I keep coming back here.


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As if things couldn't get worse, my contract is ending at the end of this month.

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And I just signed another lease

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I can't tell my W this. This will be a huge blow against me in the way of career stability in her eyes. I can't believe this.

I am already talking to contacts and getting my resume out. I have a week and a half to find something.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
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1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
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Originally Posted By: K4D
I can't tell my W this. This will be a huge blow against me in the way of career stability in her eyes.


Unless it's going to affect child support and/or visitation, who cares what she thinks?


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

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Originally Posted By: K4D
I can't tell my W this. This will be a huge blow against me in the way of career stability in her eyes. I can't believe this.
Kevin


I'm going to call BS on this...It was a contract, you both are in IT, contracts end, nature of business...Isn't her's?


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Kev,
Sorry to hear that. You'll have unemployment, right? Was this news out of the blue or did you expect it?


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One more thing kev...I know a couple recruiters down in Dallas let me try and get in touch with them and see what they have...You will get unemployment, since the contract ended. Good thing is you were looking before this so it's not like you're just starting...


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