Well when I came home from Bunco WH was trying to put S down but he was overtired. WH eventually brought him downstairs and said "I like to be sure to get him to sleep before I go. I don't like to leave when he is still awake." Now you know I was thinking "Well if you hadn't left, you could stay up as long as you'd like and make sure he is asleep" but I just said "I know you do. You were trying really hard."
So apparently he went to SIL's house and they were all going to go out to dinner but then SIL and her H left with the boys for a banquet so it was just WH and his stepdad. I kind of thought that was weird, because an hour before, his sister arranged plans for dinner, and then they go to a banquet? Makes me curious about what his stepdad was talking to him about!
To top that, my SIL had asked if she and her stepdad could come visit S today. First I said yes but then when I found out that he would be seeing S last night I made other plans. Well WH said he heard they might be coming over but assured me they didn't have to; that if I felt uncomfortable with it that they could just not come over and he seemed a little uneasy about me seeing stepdad....the day before he seemed sorry that I wouldn't meet him and now it's like he doesn't want me to meet him?
Well lucky for him I have plans for S and I to visit my friend so I won't meet his stepdad this time. I know his real dad way better anyway.
Tomorrow WH sees S from 8 to 4(it is a LOOOOOONG day with a baby if you don't take him somewhere, haha!I hope OW and her kid get really annoyed!) for two Saturdays, then on the 29th takes him overnight on Friday at 6 and returns by 12 on Saturday.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
WH just texted to me to ask if his sister and stepdad were visiting today (I didn't tell him they weren't yet). He said "Hope S won't be too worn out" when I replied simply with "No they aren't" he replied "That's probably for the best anyway so you two can rest."
I take it there isn't anything people feel like commenting on but will someone please humor me and make a guess as to why WH is so nervous now about me talking to his stepdad?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I take it there isn't anything people feel like commenting on but will someone please humor me and make a guess as to why WH is so nervous now about me talking to his stepdad?
I agree with Cutter. Your mind reading.
Maybe he does. Maybe he doesn't. Maybe you're reading WAAAY too much into this. Stop it now.
Last edited by P17; 01/15/1009:12 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I think WH doesn't want me to know something they talked about. Could be good or bad.
Women ruminate over stuff...it's what we do and don't worry I am just curious not scared/angry/hopeful/happy.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
LOL what? I visited a friend of mine who clearly thinks I'm nuts for 1)having hope and 2)wanting to reconcile. She doesn't know as much about my sitch as you all do, but I think the real reason is that her exH cheated on her with 4 different women. She had no clue whatsoever until she opened a piece of mail that was from one of the OW requesting her child support. So there is an OC out there somewhere. Currently he is living on again off again with the last OW and they have a child together. He still wanted my friend back though but it was all too much for her. She just told me that if we divorce I should keep the house for equity. She is happily involved with a great man.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
