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newmama #1912584 01/09/10 02:07 AM
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Newmama -

I think our first song on there should be that Cupid Shuffle song! My kids play it non-stop, and it's making me so insane... I'm singing it all the time!


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
mindfull #1912696 01/09/10 04:42 AM
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LOL Mindfull! I like the idea of annoying songs being on the revenge CD--I was only thinking of songs like "You Oughta Know!"


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newmama #1912708 01/09/10 04:50 AM
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Alanis!!! Yea, that would certainly echo through the ol' noggin' after awhile...

This is good... I think we need some others to add to this mix...


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mindfull #1912736 01/09/10 07:41 AM
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Well I know the last song.

Its the end of the world as we know it - R.E.M.


Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!
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Originally Posted By: newmama
Cutter, what a revenge CD? nooo--only joking (kind of) but I would be interested in seeing song list for the happy CD!

and although I agree with PDT about not making decisions out of anger, I agree with P17 that it hasn't seemed like you've done that over the last couple of months. oh--except possibly anger motivated you to go NC in the beginning???


I went NC in the beginning because I had to check my emotions. And force her to get all her EN's from the OM. I needed time and space to start healing. Limbo with her in the house was killing me. Plan A until they rub it in your face...

Revenge CD ... Hehe I think I could make a fun one.


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Ah, yes living limbo under the same roof is very very difficult! NC was the right thing to do in order to "check" your emotions!

Now are you going to pack up any of her stuff for her? Will you be at the house when she gets it?

REM End of the World as we know it...and I feel fine!
All American Rejects..." Gives you Hell":

I wake up every evening, with a big smile on my face
And it never feels out of place

And you're still probably working at a 9 to 5 pase
I wonder how bad that tastes

When you see my face hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
When you walk my way hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell

Now where's your picket fence love
And where's that shiny car,
And did it ever get you far

You’ve never seem so tense love
I’ve never seen you fall so hard,
Do you know where you are

And truth be told I miss you
And truth be told I’m lying

When you see my face hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
When you walk my way hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
If you find a man that’s worth a damn and treats you well
Then he’s a fool, you're just as well, hope it gives you hell

Hope it gives you hell

Tomorrow you’ll be thinking to yourself
Where’d it all go wrong, the list goes on and on

And truth be told I miss you
And truth be told I’m lying

When you see my face hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
When you walk my way hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
If you find a man that’s worth a damn and treats you well
Then he’s a fool, you're just as well, hope it gives you hell

Now you’ll never see, what you’ve done to me
You can take back your memories there no good to me
And here’s all your lies,
You can look me in my eyes
With that sad sad look that you wear so well

When you see my face hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
When you walk my way hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
If you find a man that’s worth a damn and treats you well
Then he’s a fool, your just as well, hope it gives you hell

When you see my face hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
When you walk my way hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
When hear this song and you sing along oh you’ll never tell
Then you’re the fool, I’m just as well
Hope it gives you hell
When you hear this song I hope that it will give you hell
You can sing along I hope that it will treat you well


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newmama #1912929 01/09/10 08:19 PM
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And truth be told I miss you
And truth be told I’m lying

hehe

newmama...

You made my day.... Funny video as well

Yes she comes over on the 24th. I will be here. That day we sign the seperation papers. That day I will be legally seperated.

As per our email conversation. Which I will post for yea

From cutter to Ladybug Sent on Thursday night as per conversation agreement that seperation paper will be sent out by friday.

Paper and Visit to home.
Ladybug here is a copy of the seperation paper.

Only additions I added where the date to put the house on the market and I also clarified our RRSP amounts. As it looked like you were not getting any. So I fixed that up. Other than that I have not changed anything.

Other items.

January 23rd. Could we move this to the 24th or the following weekend. I wish to be here when you are here. That way we can iron out any differences quickly on items being moved out. I will also allow us to see each other once before the Jack and Jill and the wedding. Which should take some stress off and allow us to enjoy both these wonderful evenings.

Also I cannot find the shark anywhere. If you have it, can I borrow it to clean the floors with? You can bring it with you. If you do not have it, then I have no clue where it is.

Take Care

Cutter

((( SHARK IS A FLOOR CLEANING DEVICE )))

Reply next day

Thanks Cutter. The 24th is fine, and I think it's a good idea that we're both there. Let me know, and I'll arrange for my Dad to come later so we can have time on our own to disucss things.

I'll bring my signed copy of the agreement with me then, if that's OK with you.

I'll talk to you before then.

Ladybug


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So 2 weeks and I am legally seperated. I am making sure it is backdated to the day ladybug left the house. Sept 15th. I do wonder what she is looking like. As I have not seen her since then. It will be good to get this over and done as well.

Going forward. 2 More times seeing her after that. Then its just funerals and the odd wedding.


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Cutter, wow you surprised me when you communicated with ladybug about meeting but I suppose that it makes sense. I am nervous for you for some reason. (not bad...just butterflies!)
But why is her dad coming later?
And what about the shark??? LOL!


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newmama #1913108 01/10/10 03:07 AM
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Originally Posted By: newmama

All American Rejects..." Gives you Hell":

When you see my face hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell
When you walk my way hope it gives you hell
Hope it gives you hell


Everytime I hear this song I think of OW! Makes me smile.... wink

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