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How beautiful and serene. I know the feeling of the couples. I have it everytime I go to Fiji and I've been there about 5 times now! Endured it and felt envious of the fun and friendship between couples. You're very young still, Julia. It will happen!!

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Following along and living vicariously through your travel blog! Hope you are having a ball. Peace.
p.s. After reading that back, it did not come out the way I intended. Hope you are having the time of your life. Now, if that includes a couple of hot French guys, well...do what you need to do. Sorry, my humor gets a little off-color in the wee hours of the morning.

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Hey Julia, glad you are having a brilliant time!

Wow, so NOW H emails you huh... do you think thats because you let go?? I wonder how he would react if you just ignore his texts for the next few ???

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(((Ali, Goldey, Cas, Michelle)))

Yes, I ignored his Christmas text, and I will n/c from now I reckon. It is interesting how once I put my foot down and took away the privilidge of 'me' he has become more responseive.

Bangkok is so much better. I met my school friend last night and it was so lovely to catch up, we are meeting tonight too. And then last night I was having a foot massage on the street and the two lads from singapore happened to walk passed so I have been sight-seeing with them today and tomorrow. i think I just needed a bit of company again :-)

It is so hot here, I fly out to Oz on Friday. Exciting!


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Yay!!! What an amazing way to usher in 2010!


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Did you know the guys from Singapore were going to Thailand too? What must the odds be that you would see them on a street in such a huge city as Bangkok? Bizarre!


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No I didn't know, it was really random :-)I've had a great few days with company again. Being by myself if ok but I don't think I can do it for more than a week. Still, I will be back on the backpacker trail from now on in NZ.

Actually, a potential opportunity has presented itself. I was out with my friend H last night and she is teaching English over here. She suggested that in April there would be some job vancancies at her place and asked if I wanted one for a year and we would share a flat. Well, I am seriously considering it really. I have been thinking a lot that it is time to move on from my job any way and I have no other ties in London other than my cat and the house.

Well, I think I can organise something for the cat (although I would miss her terribly) and the house isn't too much of an issue. It just seems like a great opportunity and I think me and H would get on very well together over here. Bangkok is a great jumping off point for Asia also, so... I don't know. I am *very* tempted. smile


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The opportunity sounds perfect; it creates space, gives you a change from your current employment, provides insight into the Thai culture and the perfect base for more Asian travel (and Aus/NZ/ Oceanic)Having a friend and accommodation is the icing on the cake. It sounds wonderful imo.

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That sounds like a marvelous opportunity Julia. What an interesting way to spend a year!


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Oooh! You are just getting all sorts of opportunities!


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