LIMBO NO MO!

[iwantittowork]

GIMA, I know where you are at right now, and also know you will handle it.

You have done everything you can your M with dignity, grace, and honor, but it takes two.

Now is the time to go dark, focus on YOU and your kids. Get your L involved early.

Acknowledge and accept your emotions on what has happened, and where you are.

There is no way to accurately put into a forum posting how I hope, wish and pray for you and your family for Peace and a better future.

Keep moving forward buddy! You can do it!

[Gnosis]

GIMA, I'm sorry dude. I'd send you hugs... but I'm a man ... and you're a man... and we just don't do dat.

I know you will handle it. Best way to do that is to "get busy".

EDIT:

With nothing left to say, I'd like to remind you of your frame of mind about 2 hours before getting served:

But, I stepped back and looked at it like this. Either she's going to D me or wake up, right? If she D's me, what does it matter what her reaction is? In that case, she's already decided she isn't my W anymore. In which case, in XX months time, looking back on this as a single person, I won't care what her reaction was.

[givingitmyall]

Thanks everyone. Pretty big blow today. But, I WILL handle it and make it through this. You guys here have been more help to me than you can ever imagine (but, you DO understand how much you mean to me b/c many of you have been or are where I am right now).

Today is my dad's birthday (he passed away in 2003). So, this wasn't the best day for this to happen, but there is never a good time for it to happen.

I have called my C to make an appointment. I will go home tonight and be a MAN. Which means I will not show any weakness to her (at this point she doesn't deserve that pleasure).

I will enjoy my children then get some sleep. And I'm banking on the sun coming up to morrow. I will then move forward on retaining an attorney. And stay busy.

I will probably need to lean on you guys more than I have in a while, but I will keep moving forward. For me and for my kids.

Thank you all for your support. I don't know where I would be today without this place.

[soleil]

((((((((((( GIMA )))))))))))

You are in my thoughts. Def try to get some rest tonight.

[Gnosis]

Gima, I edited my post above... but see now you didn't need it...

I'll be here and in the "alt" buddy and doing whatever I can to help.

[SpyBunny]

I'm really sorry to hear your news, GIMA- you're in my thoughts. You have tons of support from friends who care, and at this point, you have a lot of virtual beers headed your way...

Hugs-
Bunny

[C-Bart]

Gima, sorry to hear about your latest news. This is the definition of suck.

Keep your head high knowing you did and will continue to do your best.

[Kemper]

I have been thinking about you and I hope that all went well when you got home. I hope that you focused on spending time with the kids and all in all had a decent night.

Try to get some sleep tonight and know that alot of people have you in their prayers.

[Greek]

How are you? How was it walking in the door at home? Don't keep us in suspenders!

Greek (w/Coach looking over my shoulder )

[SoldierDad]

GIMA,

you have helped so many on these boards with your advice and guidance, including me.

My thoughts are with you tonight as you navigate through this journey.