Well, everyone. My W has filed the D action. A process server showed up at my office about an hour ago to serve me with the Complaint today. She couldn't even give me the courtesy of asking if I would simply acknowledge service of teh Complaint.
Pretty shaken up right now. I will handle it, but wow. I just have to get through today.
I am sorry. I think many of us can relate to the feeling of being handed D papers via a process server. Of course you will handle it and there is nothing wrong with feeling a bit shaken. Just take a bit of time to collect yourself, feel what you need to feel then formulate a plan.
You will get through today and if you feel like you can't... post here and we will support you through the rough patches.
So sorry to hear that GIMA. You know that you have done all you can to try and salvage the R/M. You know that you have done it with strength and honro. You also know that you were heading down this path due to being in limbo for so long.
Hold your head high for all that you have done to try to save your R/M and all the help you give others on this board to help save theirs.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
I wish I had something to say to make it all better but we all know it doesn't work that way. What I can tell you is that from all the support and advice I have seen you give to everyone else as well as what you have overcome in your own stich you are a awesome individual who had nothing to be ashamed of. If I was you I would go look in a mirror and be proud of what you see.
Hang in there bud.
ME:35 W:34 D:10 D:08 D:06 S:04 Together 16y M:10 Bombed 12/18/09 MO:12/18/09 Family is the completion of life, With out family I'm just a empty shell.
Oh man, I'm so sorry. That really is a downer. I know it is hard to do right now but try to think about something positive. Get in a workout. The forum has prepared you well for this moment. You have a huge support system here. I wish I could have a beer with you too. Keep your head up you will make it. It's her loss!!!
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
