Hey P aways welcome at cutters place Affairs do not last. She may move on to another. But its not that $(*(
I feel this one will last cutter. I haven't worked out what my gut thinks as it doesn't have enough info yet (oh I would DEARLY like to find OM's ex-GF (I believe he dumped her for my W although not 100% sure) and ex-W to ask them about him - obviously I won't!)
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I am probally alot like your H. Were you moody?
ROTFL ... sorry. Was I MOODY? Ehh, yeah! Just a little bit, however I now understand why I was moody and I also understand my role in creating it which is a bit of a revelation. I was also depressed for the last 6-12 months due to the M. When W left, it lifted almost the week after which was just weird ...
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
The friend who was staying at my house went back to his wife. They drove 2000 miles to thank me for helping them get their marriage back to a point that they have the chance to work on it.
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Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
Spent evening with FIL ( his birthday ) Had 2 pops and then went to a hockey game.
2 pops? C-bug, where are you from? ;-)
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
Well, I don't know what a "wobbly pop" is, but in my hometown (Buffalo) "pop" is synonymous with what they call "soda" here in the metro NYC area. Thought maybe you were from my neck o' the woods...
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
Cutter, were you telling ME that you were like my H, or were you telling P you were like his W? And is that why you are laughing?
Actually I am not too moody but WH is!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Affairs do not last. She may move on to another. But its not that $(*( wink
Newmama
I am probally alot like your H.
Were you moody?
I had an intersting day with my mom. She knows I am still in love with ladybug. So we talk about everything. And I have told her everything. Her feelings go betweeen hate and love. And she left the relationship with ladybug at. If you want to work on the marriage then i will help you else, we no longer talk.
We still talk about D-day and everything. It has really helped. But I would like to end these conversations. But its hard. Any advice?
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Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
