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So quit worrying about what she thinks.


Ya.

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Not reading nothing into it......just wanted to see what you thought...God is still in control.......MERRY CHRISTMAS.


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Not reading nothing into it......just wanted to see what you thought...God is still in control.......MERRY CHRISTMAS.


Indeed He is. Merry Christmas to you as well.

Just a side note, I have been told to quit wearing white socks with black shoes even if I am wearing jeans. Good fashion tip to know.

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Kevin,

95% of the time, your socks should match your pants; your shoes should match your belt, should match your watchband.


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My W doesn’t show any care about whether I go or not or complete it.


Just fyi there is no completing, it's an ongoing process. Once an addict always an addict, speaking from experience.


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95% of the time, your socks should match your pants; your shoes should match your belt, should match your watchband.


Glad to know. I will make sure I am putting it into practice each day.

I have a friend that wants to take me shopping to redo my wardrobe again. I am all for it. It will probably happen after the new year.

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Just fyi there is no completing, it's an ongoing process. Once an addict always an addict, speaking from experience.


An additional reason for her to think no reason to look back.

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Just fyi there is no completing, it's an ongoing process. Once an addict always an addict, speaking from experience.


An additional reason for her to think no reason to look back.

Kevin


WOW...you don't get it and I'm thinking you never will.

Good Luck


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WOW...you don't get it and I'm thinking you never will.


I get it. It is for me.

I made that comment because I was twice asked earlier what my W might think.

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So much for caring what she thinks .....

Kevin, I hate to say it but you remind me of someone else who used to be on this board. Says all the right DB things to everyone else but can't embrace the concepts themselves. Until you can walk the talk, you're going to be hopelessly stuck.

I wish you well. I really do.

I'm outta here.


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
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