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She sounded like a wreck on the phone too. She is not doing well.

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Consequences.

Pray for her.

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She sounded like a wreck on the phone too. She is not doing well.


She can handle it.

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Pray for her.


Loving and compassionate thing to do.


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And that my Future my friend is HOW TO CREATE A CRISIS.

I didn't like the way she threw the kids and their well-being into the mediation session. But that's OK. It wasn't meant to be the final one.

Let her stew on this over the holidays. All is good. Keep on holding the line. We need to break this stubborn filly.

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Future,

I am a silent lurker on your thead. Just wanted to pop in and say great job today.

Two weeks ago my H had mentioned setting up a session with a mediator, but haven't heard anything since. I suspect H is waiting until after the holidays. I may need your advice later in preparing for that.

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Hi Future, you are doing so well, her- not so much! I hope that she can own her screw ups, but if not, that cant be your problem. Im proud of how far you have come, and Im so glad that you are looking forward to the future.

I have gotten to the point where I am excited to move forward, to start over and have a chance to have a new life.

Yes, your future is still unknown, but its going to be great, no matter what happens.


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This song comes to mind right now:

I study nuclear science
I love my classes
I got a crazy teacher, he wears dark glasses
Things are going great, and they're only getting better
I'm doing all right, getting good grades
The future's so bright, I gotta wear shades

I've got a job waiting for my graduation
Fifty thou a year -- buys a lot of beer
Things are going great, and they're only getting better
I'm doing all right, getting good grades
The future's so bright, I gotta wear shades

Well I'm heavenly blessed and worldly wise
I'm a peeping-tom techie with x-ray eyes
Things are going great, and they're only getting better
I'm doing all right, getting good grades
The future's so bright, I gotta wear shades

I study nuclear science
I love my classes
I got a crazy teacher, he wears dark glasses
Things are going great, and they're only getting better
I'm doing all right, getting good grades
The future's so bright, I gotta wear shades
I gotta wear shades, I gotta wear shades

The Future's So Bright I Gotta Wear Shades - Timbuk 3

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Gnosis-

I don't know how old you are, but I have the 45rpm record of that song! LOL!!!!

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laugh LOL

I thought of that song applying to you ever since I read your screen name. My age is in my sig.

The 80's rocked!!!

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Yeah, that's around 1986 I think. I was in college when it came out. Cool song!

Hey Gnosis, I want you to know I have read your thread, I don't feel very qualified to offer advice, but I am in your corner.

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