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Cutter has a decent steady job and with a dental and medical plan.

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Cutter is a catch then!!!


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Keep doing the dating you have been talking about. Nothing serious but just fun!


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Oh I know. I am living my life. Who joins in is their choice. Who I decide to include. Mine.

Plus I hear I look like george clooney wink

I have been getting the physical stuff from going for a massage therapy. And I take hugs from friends any chance I can get.

Last kiss was with wife. August , near the end.

I really find the lack of human touch very hard. I am not a hand holding guy. But my fav is the rub of the arm. Stare in the eyes and a smile. I miss that very much.


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I really find the lack of human touch very hard. I am not a hand holding guy. But my fav is the rub of the arm. Stare in the eyes and a smile. I miss that very much.


Rubbing the arm is a special touch to you? Wow, I wouldn't think of that as being affectionate.

Lucky for me, I can cuddle with my son but I really really miss hugs from WH and quick kisses. I am also hyperaware of any exposure of his skin...like when he scratches his stomach or lifts his sleeves up or bends over....NC protects you from that torture!


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Plus I hear I look like george clooney


And I look like Eva Mendes! just teasing. were you?
I have been told several times that I look like (young) Natalie Wood but with longer hair.


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Originally Posted By: newmama
[quote]Plus I hear I look like george clooney


I've seen a pic of cutter ... George, you have no need to worry smile


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Plus I hear I look like george clooney


And I look like Eva Mendes! just teasing. were you?
I have been told several times that I look like (young) Natalie Wood but with longer hair.




P17 thats what I was told... smile Haha Gotta go with what the ladies say...

Tall, dark , handsome, A touch of ruggedness and a wee bit of grey hair... smile

Natalie Wood Nice. She is beautiful.


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It was a slow rub on the arm. From the elbow to the wrist. With a deep look in the eyes and a smile. I have fond memories of that. It was only done when at parties as we were off talking to different people. Time would stand still for 5 seconds. I miss the hugs as well.

Human contact. Very important.


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It was a slow rub on the arm. From the elbow to the wrist. With a deep look in the eyes and a smile.


Well when you describe it like that, it could be straight from the racy pages of a steamy romance novel! Might need to use that move in the future...the Cutter clasp? No, the cutter rub? grin


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