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I think that at first, OP is the one who solves all.

But yes, I think they eventually blame the OP.


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i have no idea.. I think they do anything but take responsibility for any of their own actions. AND if they do at all -- it is ALL justified....


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I just know I can't be his scapegoat anymore.


Me: 46 H:44
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PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
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Court is on Monday for reduction of child support. I hope it goes well.


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OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
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already? what the heck!!!

i will pray for you..


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thanks cagz....

I am a little nervous


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OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
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understandable..
i have prayed.
peace be to you - and i mean it. God grant my friend peace.

if you need me i am just an email away.


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D final 7/30/2008
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thank you, court is at 3p.m. Please say a prayer for me at that time.


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ex asked for forgiveness
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Good luck T.

As far whom they blame................. until it is themselves they will always be walking in darkness


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You will be in our thoughts. Good luck.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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