Trusting, I'm sending you positive thoughts and will be thinking of you tomorrow. Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Trusting - you know that your Great Provider will take care of you.. I believe that for you!! I am VERY sorry you have to go through yet another court hearing with him... you are on my heart.
your friend - cagzmom
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and prayers. I actually felt all of you with me.
I believe it went well for me overall. It lasted about 2 hours and was very emotionally draining as well as disturbing.
Ex looked the worst I have ever seen him. He actually looked like he had lost another 10 pounds in the last 10 days. He was gaunt and talked and walked like an old man. It made me sad.
He at times did not make sense and mumbled a lot to the judge.
At the end the judge asked him what he wanted to see the child support at. My ex said $400.00. This is a man who makes over $500,000 a year.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
cont... It was rather insulting and it was clear to the judge this man does not want to financially take care of his children.
Ex lied and lied and lied and lied about everything. He even lied about what was clearly stated on his tax returns.
He lied about mortgage interest that did not even exist. I am positive now he truly believes all his lies. He is hiding money, some of that came up in court. I was able to draw the judges attention to some of it, but I am sure there is so much more. OW is his secretary. Her salary went up over the last year at least 40,000. That is quite some raise. Or is he just paying for her other services.... if you know what I mean
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Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
