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hmm sounds familiar... continually self centered.. i admire u for standing on ur own two feet!!


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
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D final 7/30/2008
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Good point forward...never thought of that


Me: 46 H:44
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Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
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Ok, I want to give everyone a good laugh.

My ex is taking me back to court on Oct. 29 to reduce child support.

In order to do this he has to have me served.

He forgot to do this.

So in is infinite wisdom he snuck to the front door last night in the dark and taped the court order on my door and came up with a bogus receipt that it was served by a server. Does he not know I have to sign for this and then my signed form goes to the court.

My daughter saw him sneek to the door (she is a night owl) and do this.

If he submits this so called receipt or forges my name it is fraud.

I don't want to involve a lawyer yet because they are so expensive, but I may have to if ex lies to the court.

Is this really my life??????


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
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Was he dropped on his head as a child?

I don't know. I hope it doesn't get to the point where youhave to get an atty if you don't want to.

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You could always show up at court, and play all innocent.

"Umm excuse me, judge, but didn't I have to sign for this?"
"Is this legal...that's not my signature, can the courier get into trouble for forging my signature? I want to take this as far as legally possible, we should protect other people from this underhanded courier. We should have them appear here in court."

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Ooh, that's wicked Jack...I like it smile

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The fact that he would go that far is really scary. I mean, that's a crime.

I think you should confront him on it.


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laughing..

jacks idea is classic!!

do not confront - liars territory -

bonehead tactic
bonehead move
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I consulted a lawyer to see if I even have to go to the court date. Waiting for an answer......

Daughter has been slowly telling me things from the Disney trip.

She said all ex and OW did was fight, fight, fight......

She also said that daddy told her he missed me.

I don't know what to make out of all of this, but a big part of me just does not care anymore.


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Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
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PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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Quote:
She also said that daddy told her he missed me.


was this during or after fights with cOW


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15
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