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Lol thanks for making me smile after a bit of a grotty day! Well done for getting permanant "big bed" status! and sweet kisses to boot a definite bonus I'd say.. Keep going Dia reckon his nearly yours!


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Hi Dia

You are definitely nearly there, not many more steps now before ..... well you know and this time you won't be the only performer in the show.



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Back to the signs...

Kiss on the mouth - CHECK!

Replaced by - Make out like teenagers!


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Go Dia, go!


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H came home tired an vulnerable, very different from how he left the house today. In fact, looking at his eyes, he almost looked like he'd been crying. He only copped to being 'tired' though, and I didn't press.

And yes, I made the obvious speculation (internally), but my position on that is that until it is explicitly stated that she's gone, she's still around.

The issue of the missing toys came up yesterday, tho. SIL's baby wanted to play with them and H asked if I knew where the 'boxes of blocks had gone'.

Dia: There's one in your room. (those are kidlet's) And there were some others I put under the house.


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Dia,

Been trying to catch up after a while off the boards. Sounds like things are progressing well. Good for you girl!


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What did I miss? Was there some kind of "show?" Details, people! I want details!


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Maybe its a good thing that you have family visiting, I think that it will help you both keep busy while he processes his grief over his R with the OW ending, if thats even what happened! Good for you Dia!


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This board kind of reminds me of high school.

"Do you think he/she likes me?"
"Did you kiss him/her yet?"
"Did you sleep in his/her bed?"
"When are you going to go 'all the way'?"

And even better, now in your sitch you're on the fold out couch with his family in the house.

"Do you think his Mom knows?"

...love those high school memories smile



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LOL!!

And let's not forget the "Is he going to ask me out?" dance.

Dia: Are you doing anything fun this weekend?

H: I don't know yet. How about you?

Dia: Oh, I don't have any plans yet. I'm rather at loose ends. <expectant look>

H: Oh, me either.

Dia: Have you seen that new movie?

H: No, I haven't.

Dia: My friends said it was really good. It's playing this weekend. <even bigger expectant look>

H(oblivious): Yeah, my friends said it was good, too.

Dia: <stares at him> You know, I just remembered. I'm busy ALL weekend. <flounces off>

H (completely flummoxed): Huh?? What was that about?

(completely fictional, of course)

And then there's the ever-popular laying your hand ever so temptingly in the middle of the car seat whilst looking the other way hoping he'll take it.

Last edited by Dia; 09/25/09 03:14 PM.

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
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