K4D Rising #4

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june72,

I will even add the brain damaged woman doesn't have to go back to her H. Paul wrote that God said a woman should not divorce her H. But if she does, she is to remain single or be reconciled to her H.

So no, I wouldn't think that she should go back to her H after doing that. But she still isn't given the permission to remarry someone else.

If she chooses to do so, that is between her and God.

Kevin

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Esox,

To each their own.

This is just my stance on it.

It is amazing the darts that get thrown at you for stating your stance on something.

Kevin

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My W is not happy that I rescheduled my daughters C appointment for next Tuesday on her week.

Life is fun.

Kevin

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If you S is injured or deathly sick, do you not call a doctor?

If your S is spiritually sick, do you not call on God to heal that S?

Kevin

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By the way, so nobody thinks I am self-righteous, I ask God to heal and fix me as well since I know I have things that need to be fixed.

Kevin

[Esox]

KD,

I won’t speculate on your wife’s spirituality, but one thing seems certain, your wife is sick of YOU.




You can believe anything that you want, you can believe that some magic sky-fairy is responsible for making sure that your life runs just fine and you get everything that you want, your way and in your time. The rub comes when what you want for yourself differs from what your spouse wants for herself.

You continue to apply a literal translation from the part of the bible you believe in (new testament) to your marriage. Your wife obviously doesn't believe the same translation that you do. And that doesn't make her wrong. It makes her understanding different from yours. And you can continue to shout that she has it wrong and you are right, but I don't think that that is going to help you on bit.

Believe what you want. Give your wife the same consideration.

Everything changes KD. Life isn't static. Stop trying to grab and hold things that are impermanent.

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Esox,

I am not shouting anything at her. I don't discuss it with her. She knows where I stand and I know where she stands. I have no earthly idea what her beliefs are. But I know they don't include me in the picture at the moment.

A covenant marriage is a permanent bond until one of us passes away. I stand by it. I stand alone at the moment for it. But I stand for it none the less.

That is my choice. And she makes her choices.

Kevin

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I won’t speculate on your wife’s spirituality, but one thing seems certain, your wife is sick of YOU.

Can't argue with that which is why I don't bother her.

Kevin

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Now don't everyone freak out. I am still thinking of a way to ask my beloved darling to go to Retrouvaille with me next month.

Any suggestions on how to put it to her so she might consider it?

Kevin

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Any suggestions on how to put it to her so she might consider it?

There is no way...There MIGHT be in the future but not now. If your going to do it anyway, which I think you well...I would say just ask her outright and tell her you'll email her the info so she can look at it...It won't turn out well.