If the 2pm time is not acceptable to you because you can't be there then you need to respond with an alternate time {or two so that he has options} that is acceptable. This is business. In a business situation if you were unable to make a meeting you would suggest another time. Do the same with him. If he refuses then do whatever you have to do to make sure that you are there when he arrives. Just because his name is on the house doesn't mean you have to roll over and give him the run of the place.
~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
I think thats the best idea GG, rearrange a more suitable time for you! Would you mind popping over and reading my thread if you arnt busy could do with some insight please..
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Thanks for posting. Now set up a meeting time that is convenient for you and meet him at the door in a pair of those hot shoes you just bought.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
BND, Doing okay, had a support group meeting last night. I think it will help, it's good to hear from others.
H has agreed to come over on Sat. when I will be home. He also agreed to take our German Shepherd to the vet for her shots. I was really appreciative and told him so.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
