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Just got back from a trip of 10 days to Florida.

5 days in disney and then 5 days in Lakeland, Fl getting my son settled at his new college.

It is good to be home.

I need to share something with all of you that has had me laughing for days,

Ex brought bimbo with him also to see son off to college.

We however were very fortunate not to cross paths.

The 4th day ex and bimbo were in Fl, ex got bit in the lip by a bug.


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It swelled up to the size of a baseball.
He had to go to ER when the lip started splitting in half and bleeding.
He had to get several shots of some type of medication.
He was bedridden for 3 solid days.
I find humor in this......forgive me.


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Oh yeah, I forgot one thing.

When ex found out I was staying 10 days, he changed his trip from 4 days to 10.


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I'm so glad you had a good time in Florida. I'm sorry, but I just about fell out of my chair laughing. Karma at it's finest! I guess he won't be mouthing off at anyone for a while. LOL!


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I am also sitting here giggling to myself.... how funny!!!!!!


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Trusting, Your X seems competitive w/you.


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Like most I am laughing at what happened to your X. I'm furious at him for bringing the bimbo BUT I give him credit for the fact that he did actually turn up for the occasion. When my D19 started uni last yr STBXH refused to go on her first day as I was going. She was very hurt by that.


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oh my.. i AM laughing!! sorry

glad you didn't have to run into the bimbo.
glad your son is off to a fresh new start....
glad you seem together and not angry...

glad i have met you...

hugs..


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You know, Trusting, what would really be interesting is if you DO run into OW...and then you are nice. I think that is a big wakeup call for them.

Since your H now is not happy w/OW, that would be most interesting indeed.


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Forward,

Yes, he is very competitive. He always has been. He is very threatened by a strong woman. I have run into OW several times when she has been with ex. Once he brought her to the house even to pick up the kids. When I am nice, he becomes so very angry. He tries to push my buttons, but he has found out it just does not work anymore.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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