True Love or True Fog? Changing Forums

[Silver Fox]

My response:

My attorney called yours the morning of August 14 with an offer. It appeares that he did not communicate the details of this offer to you.

A witness is the least of our concerns right now. We don't even have a settlement.

I do not have time tomorrow to talk or email back and forth to either you or my attorney and I will not rush to an agreement under pressure. Neither should you.

There are a lot of unanswered questions concerning the mortgage assumption and your bankruptcy claim, not to mention the house issues.

My attorney can go in by himself tomorrow and ask for another date.

Chill.

I should probably leave off the "chill".

[Silver Fox]

I sent the response at 4:00 and haven't heard back from him.

I left "chill". Screw it.

[Kimmie Lee]

God, they are so ridiculous, aren't they?

I loved your response to you h.

[KarenMarieS]

Thats perfect SF!!
Do not let him intimidate you, mine tried- you are a strong woman, you are smart and doing all the right things
Dont let him get under your skin either, he may be trying to do just that
Your response was perfect
and i love the " chill" LOL

[pearlharbr]

LOL Silver! I just caught up on the last couple months, thought I had your thread watched but guess not.

Ok, so after the appendicitis there was swine flu, infections and pneumonia? Hello karma! Hope Catbitch is enjoying playing nursemaid and breadwinner.

Good for you for not playing into his dramatics. You absolutely should take the time necessary to get everything worked out for your best interests. If he doesn't like it, boo-frickin-hoo for him.

[Silver Fox]

Thanks Kimmie, Karen and Pearl - great to hear from you again. Yes, karma indeed. Apparently the part of the brain that puts 2 and 2 together is still not working for H.

Nothing to update. I forwarded L early this morning H's emails and my response. Also told him I was having some serious 2nd thoughts about some things we had in the proposal (not that H has even read the proposal).

I asked him to request another date. The prelim was supposed to be at 4:00 today.

I kept my cell close by and checked email off and on and.......nothing.

Nothing from H, nothing from L.

[Silver Fox]

Email from L finally. He said that at the hearing "the judge said to have the case set as an "A" case, meaning we either go to trial or present an agreement for approval".

And, "if we reach an agreement sooner, we can put that on the record."

Sooner than what? A record for what? Guess I have lots of questions to send tomorrow.

He also says that H's L and he agreed that the four of us should meet and try to work out a settlement.

Well, that will be interesting. It seems we're starting all over again now.

Wonder what it was like in paradise last night when it turned out that married boyfriend didn't get that August 24 D after all.

[Kimmie Lee]

My God.

Where do their brains go? LOL!!

[pearlharbr]

Just curious because I don't know how this works: If you go to trial does that mean that you both present your cases and the judge decides how to split stuff up? Does adultery count as a legal reason to D (meaning cause)?

Of course it would be best for you to reach an agreement--that benefits you--beforehand but wondering if H is scared because the judge would most likely give you what you want and possibly even more due to his involvement with Catbitch.

I was thinking of you and wondering what was happening so let us know what the next steps are. If your shoe size is 7.5-8 I can lend you a pair of my kick ass heels to wear to court!

[happynow]

Silverfox,

Sounds like you are handling things very well!

Hang in there!!

((HUGS))