I have backed off. I am continuing to stay backed off.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Have you heard the story of the guy on the roof in a flood? He prayed for God to save him. A man in a boat came, and he sent him away... "God will save me." Later a helicopter came, and he sent them away... "God will save me." Well, he died on that roof, and went to see God in person, and asked, "Why didn't you save me?" "I sent a boat, and a helicopter, what did you want?"
Yes. He has. I posted it months ago along with 10 others. Not only would Kevin have drowned, but the 2 people in the boat and the helicopter would have jumped in as well.
Not only would Kevin have drowned, but the 2 people in the boat and the helicopter would have jumped in as well.
Now that is not nice. I would have taken the first option out of there to get out of the flood. I may be hopelessly in love, but I value my life to. lol.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Keep on giving her the space and time she has been asking for and you never know what could change.
I am. She has all the space in the world she wants from me except unless it has directly to do with the kids. It turns out she wanted me and the girls to come over for breakfast Monday morning the first day of school because she didn't trust how I would have them dressed. Nice. Thanks. We bought them all new clothes and they have to be uniform clothes and she didn't trust me? Give me a break. How incompetent does she think I am?
I went to the Cowboys first preseason game in the new stadium tonight with my dad. The stadium is fantastic. 1.2 billion dollars. And let me tell you, wow. I'm impressed. I took a picture of the inside field with the Cowboys playing on it and my first reaction was to send it to my W which is what I have always done in the past. But then I stopped myself because I knew that was not the thing to do. So I just kept it for myself.
Tomorrow is some good eatin barbq and we get the girls at 2pm for the rest of the day and evening. We will figure out something to do with them. They are very excited to have their grandpa in town for a couple of days.
I have to say it is really nice having him here. And then next weekend FaithfulH and Tomato will be here. That will be fun.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Fellow Cowboy fan here. Whats the deal with the scoreboard hanging so low? This will be a problem for punters all season long.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
They are actually going to be lifting up the big jumbotron in October. I did see that punt that hit the jumbotron. That was amazing that he got it up in the air that high. I guess they didn't completely calculate the height just right.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Today I went and had to take care of my car for a good portion of the first part of the day. Then me and my dad went and ate some great barbq. Then I went to pick up my girls from W's house. As she was bringing things over to the trunk of my car for my girls to bring over, she griped at me for not having my trunk cleaned out. I was still able to fit everything in there just fine. I didn't say anything when she griped at me. I was just quiet and finished putting things in the trunk.
Later I spoke with KJ aka the wifey for a while on the phone. I updated her with my weekend and she updated me with her weekend. It was a good phone call.
After that we took my girls swimming. Then we took them out to eat at a mexican resturant and then for ice cream. The girls bicker constantly back and forth and I will admit it is getting difficult to control that between them. I am hoping the C can help them out as well as me for how to better control that between them.
Tomorrow is mass. My dad will be going with me and the girls. He is going to try and talk to the girls through the mass to see if he can help give them a better understanding of it as I myself am still learning this mass and everything about it.
This is shaping up to be a busy week. School starts back Monday. Then Monday after work I meet with my priest and then D11 has choir. She made it for the Childrens Choir of Greater Dallas. Then Tuesday D7 has dance class. Then Wednesday they have C. Somewhere in there I need to get AA. My dad heads back to Charlotte NC on Wednesday.
W and my dad have avoided each other. He is not impressed with her choice of lifestyle. To him it doesn't matter what mistakes were made in the M by either of us. And he knows everything. He blames her for not putting the family first regardless. Remember, he is a traditional catholic. No excuse for her seeking other men and not remaining faithful to the M, period according to him. So they are obviously at odds. He loves her but will not condone her current actions and she knows it. She thinks he doesn't like her. She doesn't seem to get that it is her actions he doesn't like, not her. He told her he does love her and looks forward to the day when she returns to her true H a while back. That didn't go over well with her back then. So neither has had contact with the other since then.
Well, time to call it a night. Audios. Sweet dreams. Say your prayers.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
