Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

yeah, Mish, you're probably right. No I don't need to call her out, it's just perplexing to say the least. Now that I think about it, even more perplexing is why am I spending so much time dwelling on it? {bangs head on desk multiple times}

Heh, maybe I should get one of those 'escorts' for a event XW will be at and really play with her head.

[mishka422]

ROTFLMAO!!!!!

Here's an expample of some messed up WAS behavior.

My xh apparently saw me standing in a parking lot talking to a man. He didn't call me, he called my son asking him where I was (um...hello...you just passed me!) and who I was with. Marc told him that I was out at a class. Xh kept asking him which class, where it was, etc. until Marc finally told him that the class was at church and it was probably over by now (it was around 9pm). Xh was snippy with me the next time we had to communicate about Marc and then he came out with, "Who was that man you were talking to the other night? You guys looked like you were pretty close and having a nice talk." My response to that......."A very good friend who lets me practice my flirting techniques on him."

[hoosiermama]

Brief hijack

"On the LBS dating again thing, the WAS is typically under the impression that the LBS should have no further life now that they have ended the M. In their mind, the LBS is obligated to simply crawl in a hole and die. We're not supposed to ever find joy in life again, much less a new love interest. Never mind they might still have their own paramour."

Hahahaha! Soooo true!!!

"My ex seems thoroughly peeved at me for continuing to so much as breath"

Priceless! Your ex and my ex are made from the same mould!

ps. for everything else there is mastercard!

they're all cut from the same mold!! that's why they need a DSM-IV category for this stuff!

[dday101798]

Well, time to go cry on the bank manager's shoulder, which I very much may end up doing.

[dday101798]

Well, that was pointless, bank wouldn't budge. Had no choice but to pull almost every penny remaining out just to "survive" on until next Friday. Even then, no doubt penalties will compound and eat up that paycheck. I figured if I didn't land another job by September I'd be in financial ruin and here I am.

Even worse, I'm into my cousin for money now, so she formed a pack with her neighbor and is holding the title to my truck. I'm not mad, I understand, but I wish she would of just came to me first.

So, now I don't even know how long I'll be able to work my primary job.

Going to tell XW today that she had better get her attorney to submit the automatic withdrawl for child support TODAY other wise she's likely to not get a payment, can't get blood from a turnip. I've been reminding her each and every time we speak that things are getting bad and about to have an effect on the payments.

Ugh, something needs to happen today, it really really does. I got to thinking of all this this morning and I couldn't breathe. God, I thought the emotional turmoil was bad, get over that and now this.

[still.struggling]

Hang in there. I keep telling myself things will get better. They have to because I don't think they can get any worse. Or at least I hope they can't.

How can she form a pack with her neighbor without your consent? You had to have given her the title to begin with...right?

[dday101798]

The title had just showed up yesterday in the mail. I didn't think much of it on Saturday but we were talking prior to me taking it in to get a tire fixed and that I should stop and get a couple of keys made as I only have the one that came with it at purchase. She said "yeah you should give me one just in case.

Like I said, I'm not mad, I'm in debt to her and I have NEVER had a personal debt before and I can't stand this.

I just got to think a few minutes ago that a friend of mine has a apartment with a problematic roomate. Nice part is she's close to public transportation, so I'm thinking to just sign the title over completely to my cousin and she sell it to cover the debt and I'll move.

Problem with that is, my friend is not in the greatest of neighborhoods and is female, and that will have a huge impact on my visits with the kids. Mainly disallowing it.

I just simply can't do this anymore, expecially driving 54 miles per day and now without a penny to name in the event of breakdown or accident. Couple that with now my cell phone payment is overdue for payment, just stirs the recipe for disaster even more.

[still.struggling]

I feel ya! I have to come up with $1400 by the end of the month. I have about $800 so I will have to borrow from my parents. I hate doing it but we do what we have to do.

Once you get behind it is hard to catch up. I am determined to do it though.

Wow! 54 miles per day? I complain when I have to drive 15.

[dday101798]

heh, in a weird twist of events I just got done applying for a position at another institution that is minutes away from my town. Was really scared to do it as I've been here 10 years, but if this one pans out, will save me a ton of money right now, and especially when I mave back to town. to say nothing of cutting my commute time, heck, right now I could ride my bike to work if I wanted. And it's technically the next position in line for me to promote to anyway if I was here.

[dday101798]

heh, in a weird twist of events I just got done applying for a position at another institution that is minutes away from my town. Was really scared to do it as I've been here 10 years, but if this one pans out, will save me a ton of money right now, and especially when I mave back to town. to say nothing of cutting my commute time, heck, right now I could ride my bike to work if I wanted. And it's technically the next position in line for me to promote to anyway if I was here.