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Talking to a lawyer now.

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Any other insight as to what I should be doing now. Aside from GAL...

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What if my W refuses to move out. She has no job.

How do I need to act right now around her?

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Also my W just dropped this on me before I went out of town on a business trip. My kids are with her. I have no idea what is going on at the house right now.

Should I go back?

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Help...

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First of all, you have to calm down.

You can't control what she's doing. Going back is probably going to make the sitch worse.

Do you think she will take the kids? It's probably illegal if she does so.


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Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Thanks stuck. I had to get control of myself there. Went and watched a movie with a couple of friends last night. Preparing myself today to take this head on.

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Got control again. Went this morning to open a checking account in my name and applied for a credit card.

Watching a movie now to get my mind off of things.

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Alive and kicking.

I am the architect of my own thoughts. I am in control. Thank you Coach for reminding me of the Stockdale Paradox: This is real and this is manageable. I will fall, I will get up and I will continue walking forward.

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I wanted you to know that I had not been around the board in a couple of days due to illness. I have not quit "you". I will be back and talking soon. You have wonderful people coming here to support you.

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Hey sandi.

I hope you feel better.

God knows we need you here.


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