Nah not really...Only thing is...and I know you're going to give me a quick 2x4 for this but really I'm not reading anything into things...Last night when I called to talk with the kids W gets on the phone after (like always)we talk for a few then I try and go pretty much always lets me, last night four different times she brought something else up to talk about...Just out of character for her based on the last two years.
Anyway tomorrow is going to be great...I'm taking my son to a bball game and with the cubscouts we camp out overnight at the field, and it's my bday. Really looking forward to that.
Seeing that VD cracks me up every time...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Ok, I won't give you a 2x4 on your bday...even though I could use many myself.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
There's always time for the lashes later. But I am not sure what they are for? Seems like things are going moving along, you are picking up her clues and the only question I have is, how are you responding to the openings?
Just got a notice of a filing for contested d hearing. Now it's dated may 13 which is before I noticed these differences the dinner ect got to ask her about this.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Woah!, I see what you mean by her blindsiding you all the time. She does send mixed signals. I would ask her what she intends at this point and go dark. This doesn't make any sense. It isn't you -
Earlier, my H and I went back and forth with the threats of D everytime there was a disagreement. At least once a week - and then things would be fine. It is possible that the two of you or one of you had a pattern of this kind of behavior? Impulsive behavior?
So I just asked are we not working this d out between us? She says why...tell her what I got...she said she did that but her L said it would be better if we worked it out between us and she never got anything in the mail...she said we if we don't we have a court date in nov...ok I don't have anything that says that. Then she just starts chatting I say I've got to go she says kind of sad I guess I have to go to...then starts talking again...I tell her again I need to go and do...
One thing she told me at the start of the conv is that she is working on the settlement but she hasn't as of the day after she told me five weeks ago...2x4 I was over there two days after she told me five weeks ago and found a spreedsheet she was woeking on...not from snooping I used her computer for work and of was open...but...this past Thursday I was over and did snoop...duck...looked at the spreadsheet and nothing was changed...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
So now looking back over the last few weeks I guess I shouldn't have questioned her actions...she finally came to a decision and was just more relaxed.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
