Tx, Good luck. All sounds like great progress. Keep doing what you're doing. Sounds like your H is doing a lot of thinking and feeling. Please try hard to keep being the better option. I think that will be the guiding light at the end of the dark tunnel.
I have to agree. It sounds like he is breaking down some. Hopefully he will start to work on himself some as he sees things getting closer to what he may really not want.
Its good that you are able to cope with this whole thing. That says alot about you.
Hopefully he will come back around for your marriage and yalls daughters.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Txmom, thinking of you often. It does sound like you are making some progress. Only you will decide what you want. With your girls so young it would be wonderful to be raised by both parents together.
take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
TxMom, How are things since he came out with his regrets? Has he had a whiplash and try to convince you that the other day meant nothing?
I think his re-consideration is a HUGE step forward for both of you. You going to Cancun is showing him that you can all have fun without him and get on very well. He is wondering, heck, what am I doing? Why am I missing out on all of this great stuff? Good for you. You've got his head whipped all the way around. He is now looking back, it's up to you what he sees.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Hi, TxMom. Sorry I wasn't there for you when you visited. Is everything OK? How are you doing? Thinking of you often.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
