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Re: Climbing out of the swamp AmyC #1705552 01/29/09 09:53 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV F frank_D OP Member
OP frank_D Member F Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV	Originally Posted By: AmyC Originally Posted By: frank_D On another note, W E-Mailed me a computer users joke last night. she is strange. SPAM her Oh that is so immature. Current Thread

Re: Climbing out of the swamp frank_D #1705556 01/29/09 09:58 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN S sofaraway Member
sofaraway Member S Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN	Originally Posted By: frank_D Originally Posted By: AmyC Originally Posted By: frank_D On another note, W E-Mailed me a computer users joke last night. she is strange. SPAM her Oh that is so immature. I have some funny ones about MLC and infidelity if you would like to share those with her...... M- 48 XW- mentally 17 KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28 Married- 17 years Divorce final- 10/16/09

Re: Climbing out of the swamp sofaraway #1705592 01/29/09 10:30 PM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,910 North Carolina B Bworl Member
Bworl Member B Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,910 North Carolina	Hey Frank, feed that anger. Just don't become a future TV movie of the week, ok? Bill "Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."

Re: Climbing out of the swamp Bworl #1705621 01/29/09 10:57 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV F frank_D OP Member
OP frank_D Member F Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV	Originally Posted By: Bworl Hey Frank, feed that anger. Just don't become a future TV movie of the week, ok? Bill No problem. There's a difference between anger and rage. Current Thread

Re: Climbing out of the swamp frank_D #1705627 01/29/09 11:06 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Why are you angry? Honestly, do you have a reason? There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: Climbing out of the swamp brandnewday #1705634 01/29/09 11:11 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV F frank_D OP Member
OP frank_D Member F Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV	Originally Posted By: brandnewday Why are you angry? Honestly, do you have a reason? Yes. I have been betrayed, my kids have been betrayed, I work as hard as I can while in pain and get no appreciation. Yet I still punish myself instead of expressing my anger when events come up. I can go back 10 or more years to all kinds of events with all kinds of people where I didn't express my anger. Instead I took on blame. I am angry. Not hurt. Angry. No, I'm not sitting here festering over it. I'm just saying that I choose to push the hurt outward so it can be the anger that it was originally. Then, when the appropriate times come up I CAN express it. I can be myself, someone who is allowed to get angry. Instead of the little boy who wasn't allowed to express his anger. Current Thread

Re: Climbing out of the swamp sofaraway #1705638 01/29/09 11:13 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV F frank_D OP Member
OP frank_D Member F Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV	Originally Posted By: sofaraway I have some funny ones about MLC and infidelity if you would like to share those with her...... Hmm, would that be considered harassment or just bad taste? It would be very interesting to see the response I would get..... Current Thread

Re: Climbing out of the swamp frank_D #1705641 01/29/09 11:16 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Frank, I totally hear what you are saying... I am glad you are expressing yourself. Quote: Yes. I have been betrayed, my kids have been betrayed, I work as hard as I can while in pain and get no appreciation. But did something happen today? There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: Climbing out of the swamp brandnewday #1705649 01/29/09 11:26 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 3,325 S Startingover2 Member
Startingover2 Member S Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 3,325	Hi Frank! I seem to have alot of anger from being betrayed as well. Trying to change that anger into acceptance. I am sick of being angry and hurt and the reality is its not changing the situation. I am the only one hurting and angry. Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!

Re: Climbing out of the swamp Startingover2 #1705676 01/30/09 12:13 AM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	I disagree Startingover, right now anything that moves Frank forward is a good thing, if it is anger then so be it, as long as he doesn't wallow. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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