Climbing out of the swamp

[faithisbelieving]

HI Amy...I meant..why join DB on Facebook? There is a DB site on FB. F

[brandnewday]

Hey there 25,
I am on FB too!!

[frank_D]

HI Amy...I meant..why join DB on Facebook? There is a DB site on FB. F

the DB site on FB is owned by Michelle and is not private. The DB GROUP is owned by some of us and is private. It's hardly used and on the public areas nobody posts DB related stuff to each other.

[frank_D]

So what do you do next?
That's a real question btw...are you supposed to somehow let go of all the old anger or are you just going to learn ways to express it in a healthy manner from here on out?

Knowing the problem (whichever one it may be) isn't typically your problem. It's the "doing something about" it that trips you up so what happens from here?

Express it in a healthy manner. I have nothing to lose any more. And a lot of hurt that is really anger turned inward.

On another note, W E-Mailed me a computer users joke last night. she is strange.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

No she's not Frank, she isn't strange or weird, or even baffling.

She always...always always always...she always throws you a bone when she thinks you're upset and it fu cks you up seeking some deeper meaning.

[brandnewday]

On another note, W E-Mailed me a computer users joke last night. she is strange

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Why is it that whenever she makes any attempt at being friendly you automatically call her a name or assume that she is strange or wierd or up to something.

You have to stop this behaviour ASAP!

NEGATIVITY BREEDS NEGATIVITY

[Bworl]

Or you could just tell her to stop sending you the cute little ditties.

In her world there is nothing contradictory about being an adultress, wanting a divorce, and exchanging humorous emails as though you were best buds.

Tell her to stop if you want her to stop.

Otherwise, read them, laugh if they're funny, and move on. Not every action is filled with deep meaning.

And trying to explain the actions of someone who's decision-making ability is clearly way flawed is a cheeseless tunnel of the highest order.


Bill

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I love you Bill, and that's ok cause I think I could take Deb in a fight.

[AmyC]

On another note, W E-Mailed me a computer users joke last night. she is strange.

SPAM her

[frank_D]

She always...always always always...she always throws you a bone when she thinks you're upset and it fu cks you up seeking some deeper meaning.

Maybe the 'deeper meaning' is that she throws me a 'bone' to 'f me up'. I'm not looking for a deeper meaning though. I'm angry and I'm going to feed that anger.